We have a young child together. She is very difficult to deal with, even has been held in contempt of court for withholding custody. Now, she said that she is in a 60 day program and if she misses just 1 day or is late without doctors note, she will face dire consequences. I could not find any court records and I do not think it is ordered by DCF/CPS. I have been asking her repeatedly what it is, no response at all. She is literally stone-walling me since she accidentally told me. She also didn't think that I would put 1 and 1 together. Up to now, I tried to solve every disagreement with giving in a lot, but that obviously does not work. She mistakes kindness for weakness.

I am considering going full throttle on her, filing some stuff at court. Would anyone advise me against it? She isn't co-parenting anyways, and does shady things.