Their intent is malicious and the advice therefore not beneficial. When they argue against marrying an older man as a younger girl because “they only want you for your youth”, it is as if they think they are endowed with some major wisdom just because they are a decade or two older. They assume the only thing younger girl has is youth, and is in all other areas of life increadibly lacking. That is not the case. This requires a major amount of dissociation from reality. More often than not the case is that they are at least the same when it comes down to it, and at best the younger girl is smarter, more strategic and desirable in her approach.

What argument, if any, is there to be made for an older woman being superior? They convince themselves that at their big age, everyone younger lacks in intelligence, education, experience?? Education can be achieved by 22. Intelligence is inherited. Experience is seriously an unfortunate thing if you are not a man.

Taking their advice will make you as miserable, if not more miserable than themselves.