I've been following trp for sometime now. Whilst I already exhibited trp behaviors, some were still BP'd. (E.g, texting too often, always leaving sexual comments).

So tonight was my first tinder hook. Being from the UK, girls tend to be a little more prude, so having a little banter works a treat, and you do have to have a little basic small talk.

Picked her up from her place for coffee. Talked about life stuff; jobs, uni, family, basically any bullshit you can think of that generates conversation. I didn't seem too overly interested, since it WAS a little dull. But she went on about how she does scuba diving for a living, and we hit it off talking about our adrenaline fueled hobbies.

An hour later, the shop shut, so I took her home. She then revealed "I'm home alone, and there's a spider in my room! I'm gonna have to squish it", pretty obvious sign she wants to take things back to her place. Got to hers, said need use your toilet quick - no hesitation.

Walked around her house and seen all the cool shit she had. Eventually, I had enough. I just said "I've gotta go", and threw her against the kitchen wall and started making out. "I thought you we're going" she replied, "Do you really believe I was going without a kiss?". Started making out a little bit more, then pointed my head towards upstairs. "I don't give on the first date" I didn't know whether I fucked up at this point, so I just backed off and said "Ok, I'll be on my way then", she seemed to look at me in awe, and started laughing "Next time". She went for the kiss again, and I went on my way.

Fucked up? Possible plate? LMR kicked in and I didn't reciprocate properly? I don't know, but the general abundance mentality has made me less anxious, and care less about women in general, and it definitely helps.