I’ve said a lot over time about masculinity, gender roles, and how all this stuff affects not just men but a lot of people who don’t fit into clean boxes—transgender women, gender-nonconforming or dysphoric guys, confused, pressured, or misread males, all of it. I’ve also been vocal about being against male genital mutilation—and yes, I mean circumcision. That’s out there already. My views are known.

But that’s not really what I’m trying to talk about today.

Here’s something simpler: What if there was just a chat room—a real-time space—where people who care about men’s issues and gender freedom could talk normally, casually, without needing to perform or polish up every sentence for a post?

Somewhere anyone who relates to these topics—even if they're unsure where they land—could just speak, ask questions, bounce ideas, or figure things out together. Could be trans women, cis men, MGTOW, deconstructionists, whoever. Doesn't matter. If you get it, you get it.

I sometimes overpost, or maybe just post a lot, depending on who you ask. So I figured maybe this kind of chat room would take some pressure off people like me—and maybe be more helpful to others too. A space where conversation actually flows instead of waiting for replies hours later.

I don’t know if that already exists. But if it doesn’t… why not start it?