I recently posted here how i am extremely good at approaching, but i struggle with follow up,

Someone said its because i dont see myself as a good catch, and that hit me.

Because i realised that i always cater my personality to fit the girl's needs and not my own because i got worried about fumbling, which in turn made fumbling more common, until recently, past 2 weeks i decided to be completely transparent about who i am(agressive / very dominant) and i approached a girl like usual got her contact after chatting for a while, and then later when we were on call i explained to her what i am like and what i am into, and she said she feels the same, fast forward 3 days later she comes over and everything goes perfectly. she's my girlfriend now

Just goes to show that just being yourself to attract the right girl for you. Is 10x better than faking your personality and failing to truly attract anyone.

Stay real.