I had two painful outcomes upon events of vacations being taken place while I have been dating. One was when I started dated one lady a week before my several day solo vacation and another was when I was dating another lady at a different time and she went on vacation

The first incident was when I went on instant date with a very lovely woman. The date was great. I told her that I will be leaving the country to go on a vacation and that we will schedule a date on the day I get back. Unfortunately, she got into a relationship on the same day that I returned back home

Second incident was when I was dating another lady for a few weeks. She went on a vacation to Las Vegas and when she flew back home, I sent her a welcome back message. She then told me that she met someone in Las Vegas and that we should stop seeing her.

It seems like solo vacations while you’re dating someone bounds for the termination of that relationship. Does anybody else experience the same thing?