Field report day 4

Affectionate_Boss657 · 2025-08-30T18:28:07+00:00

Same here buddy

epimpstyle · 2025-08-30T18:52:51+00:00

Approaching 1-2 women isn't enough. Once you've approached 2, it's better to keep going because you are in a talkative mood and now is easier. You might not notice any benefit immediately, but the next day becomes easier. In the beginning, if you skip 1-2 days, the approach anxiety comes right back and you need to start almost from ZERO..

miyass_miyass · 2025-08-31T09:17:36+00:00

if you’re getting overwhelmed and not approaching you need to lower your goals and do exercises that you can do at volume (look up ”progressive desensitisation” and “approach anxiety”)

The more impatient you are the harder you’re going to make it for yourself. just do the exercises diligently and *at volume* (10+ interactions per session, ideally in under an hour, or at least try to work up to this) and don’t try to graduate prematurely

Broad-Cranberry-9050 · 2025-09-02T23:44:22+00:00

Hang in there.

It's all exposure therapy. What you should do is have mini-goals.

The first night, make it a goal to talk to 1 girl. Even if it's just a hello, she says something back and you walk away.

If that gives you a confidence boost, then try to talk to more girls. Always try to do more than your expected goal. The expected goal is more there for a small goal to reach in case one day youarent feeling it, youc an just force yourself to do the small goal.

Then keep adding to it every night you reach a new goal (tallk to 3 girls, 5 girls, get a number, 3 numbers, etc).

It's to create that apporach confidence even if you fail.

Title	Field report day 4
Author	Perfect-Bumblebee153
Upvotes	3
Comments	10
Date	August 30, 2025 6:25 PM UTC (11 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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