Question for Unmarried People - What is your ideal mate's, ideal mate?

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Ultramega39 · 2025-09-03T18:37:13+00:00

Male/Heterosexual/Somewhat Asexual

Interesting question....um...I assume that my ideal spouse would be looking for someone who is family oriented, is good with children, and has a lot of dreams and goals.

TransmissionsSigned · 2025-09-03T23:09:14+00:00

Male, straight.

Me.

KayRay1994 · 2025-09-04T14:50:04+00:00

Male. Bi/demi

My ideal partner would prob be someone who leans on the artistic, weird side, though is more spontaneous and upbeat than me - probably an extrovert who externalizes all their traits (everything from the individually driven stuff like artistic spirit, intellect, etc as well as the more so socially driven stuff like empathy, kindness, etc). I occupy that similar space but I’m more quiet, introspective and reflective.

Really there isn’t much to it. I’m looking for the yang to my yin, that kind of thing. I’m describing vague traits because the traits themselves are vague - like i won’t go up in arms on the type of artistic spirit or spontaneity because the type of these things matter far less than them existing, for example.

As for whether I’d be their ideal partner? I’m grounded, I’m great at seeing the details of a situation, I think well under pressure and I’m analytical (so I attempt to understand ‘why’) - so if my ideal partner is someone more spontaneous and extroverted, and wants a yin/yang dynamic than yes

Title	Question for Unmarried People - What is your ideal mate's, ideal mate?
Author	shadowrangerfs
Upvotes	3
Comments	5
Date	September 2, 2025 4:14 PM UTC (10 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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