She has never been all together to begin with but the past few months she’s been just awful. Her other baby daddy took her to court to get primary custody, she lost her child support and pays him now. She was bringing random guys around him and just not handling her responsibilities as a mother. My son is barely there so he’s avoided most of the chaos. Our custody is I am the primary parent.
She has our son twice a month, I still pay her $ to help. But I have been noticing things, she sleeps constantly, my son he’s about to turn 5 and he sits on his iPad for 9-10 hours a day when he’s there with her. She just isn’t a good mother to be honest. Misses school events, just not there much.
She admitted to me that she’s been using MDMA regularly the past few weeks but not with her kids around. Idk if I believe that but that’s what she said. On top of that, I go to drop my son off and she has receipts laying around for plan B and she’s sharing texts from some random guy that admits to his drug use and missing his ex, trying to show me why she’s all depressed…like it’s chaos. This is like guy number 3-4 in the past 2 months. Yes, I know too much but she has no friends or family to share anything with.
I haven’t told her other baby dad what I know but I am starting to get very nervous. I have never touched drugs so no damn clue how bad it could get but she has mental health issues, takes meds for it. I think she might have borderline personality disorder. Has a history of depression and scars to prove it. Should I do anything here or see how it goes?
