What are your best quick tricks for spiking arousal?

Fidel__CashFl0w · 2025-09-22T01:02:05+00:00

Dude you’re overthinking this. Don’t push her into a wall plz lol just make her laugh and have fun with her and the arousal will come naturally

ImpossibleWaiting · 2025-09-22T12:48:07+00:00

do not push like the others have said. There are much simpler and gentler ways to do so.

Get closer to her. Show her something or make her show you something on the phone. Make your hands touch her body (lean in and keep your hand near her so that she can feel body contact, it can be anywhere: her hands, her legs, her back, her ass, even her chest if it's just elbow contact and not active touching). Make short contact with the small of her back with your fingertips.

Fix her hair and pat her head. Then later touch her face and caress it. Then at some point stop her and say "Let me look into your eyes," and keep looking into her without looking away for awhile and touch her hands or face as you do. Say "Wow, I feel so connected to you", and you will.

Hold her hands. Offer her to tell each other a story with your hands. Lead a dance with her. Lift her up and whirl her. Massage her shoulders. Play with her hair. Lead her by the small of her back.

Touch and hold her neck. Bite her neck. Short kiss. Longer kiss. Loooonger kiss. Touch her tummy. Touch her ass. Touch her chest or between her legs.

Slow escalation and eye contact is key to spiking arousal properly. If she breaks the contact, don't seek to reengage immediately, that might seem needy. But do reengage soon and have that kino fun as you talk to each other.

You don't have to escalate all the way by the way. You can stop at half of the above on the first date. I had an instadate with a girl I've seen only once before yesterday and it was so fun. By showing non-neediness you open more opportunities on your future dates.

Rocketustaad · 2025-09-22T01:59:51+00:00

Pushing women against soft wall might work if the wall is made of money

Life-Income2986 · 2025-09-22T00:55:16+00:00

God you guys are going to go to prison lol

Sex and arousal isn't moves you do on a woman like a mortal kombat finisher lol

poly_nerdy_panda · 2025-09-23T17:55:55+00:00

just treat her like you already fucked her, if she says its to much back off duh

iLikeAza · 2025-09-22T01:26:06+00:00

Tequila But don’t push anyone against a wall or touch her behind the knee. Super creepy and never heard a girl say baby I love it behind the knee. Be attractive and confident isn’t a trick

Trip_seize · 2025-09-22T09:24:55+00:00

Interesting choice of words...

norwegiandoggo · 2025-09-22T11:56:41+00:00

Do you mean when you're already making out?

Violet_Moonveil · 2025-10-01T02:42:24+00:00

I'd say dont be handsy unless she initiates the touch or moves closer. Then focus on small of back. If kissing id say the neck is a weakness. You can tell by how our breathing changes with excitement.

Title	What are your best quick tricks for spiking arousal?
Author	desertchimp05
Upvotes	0
Comments	30
Date	September 22, 2025 12:21 AM UTC (10 months ago)
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