In my 20 something years of living, I've just come to the realization of how most women react relationships. They treat companionship as something that happens to them, and not something that is mutual. They always want the man to cherish them, appreciate them، love them buy gifts etc and the most the man would get in return is not up to a quater of the effort he puts in. A lot of women (not all, but more than 75%) also don't agree they can ever do any wrong. You see, im aware fairly simple guy. If I like a girl and she says I did something wrong, id probably apologize. Not necessarily because I feel like what I did was wrong, but because I've realised my actions, regardless of my intentions, have caused her harm. Now reverse the situation and what do you get? You get called petty. I remember how a girl and I had issue where we were both angry at each other. I didn't call, neither did she. She went on to tell her sister, to which her sister was like "why is he being petty, is he a woman or what". The headless I experienced when I heard that was crazy. So you mean to tell me that, we were both angry at each other, but its me that didn't call (not you that also didn't call) that's the petty one? At the end of the day, we all know ow what we are doing.