How to feel again?

JeffsRP · 2015-11-09T06:04:59+00:00

I think to live a happy life, you need a meaningful connection with a woman

It can contribute. It is not necessary.

Edit: you can have meaningful connections with family and friends (male or female of any age) too, but it's also not necessary

So how do I feel again? Is it necessary?

"is love necessary?"

Nope.

"How do I love again?"

Find someone worth loving.

is wanting a meaningful connection a weakness?

Fuck no. Just don't go telling women that unless they dig and dig and earn it.

I guess a good piece of information would be how much and how many women do I fuck. I fuck as much as I can based on my schedule with different women (zero feelings all the time).

As much as you want. Ain't nothing wrong with a man fucking as much as he wants with as many women as he wants. It's actually better for you physically (testosterone increases) and mentally (abundance).

GraphicSeniorNudity · 2015-11-09T07:38:59+00:00

What's the likelihood that you might be depressed?

youeatlikeachild · 2015-11-09T20:37:21+00:00

Sounds to me like you are just 20 lol. People here tend to overanalyze posts by really young guys, you will find your way.

You've barely been an adult, had adventures, wins and losses. If you want to know love, get a dog, if you can't love your dog, then worry about yourself.

redpillcynic · 2015-11-09T08:53:16+00:00

Realize all women are the same. There are tons of women highly similar to her just waiting for your approach.

wehadtosaydickety · 2015-11-09T14:24:26+00:00

I'm struggling with this myself. Out of the anger phase and the player phase seems to be an acceptance phase. You can still love and respect a woman for what she is, but that isn't your best friend.

It's led me to experiment with downright wholesome girls, strict family values types (not Christian, I live in Asia). I used to avoid these girls like the plague but recently met some that are fun in their own way, mostly just being really good at the male/female dynamic and "smart" about that part of life.

I'm not preaching the Asian unicorn as I know from experience that's a myth, but the hardass grandmothered women who were taught early on what their value was and how to maximize it for life. The good ones.

Maybe I can still be a hopeless romantic but my "soulmate" will be a doting housewife that's 10 years younger and fits into the traditional female role. And I can respect how good she is at that. But it's still a superficial enough connection that it isn't oneitis and your life doesn't revolve around her.

exilesoul · 2015-11-09T07:03:39+00:00

I think having a connection is good aslong as you don't depend on it. Your missing something in your life and you feel like a woman would make it better.

Title	How to feel again?
Author	felix9
Upvotes	8
Comments	11
Date	November 9, 2015 5:56 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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