Went out to a convention gala with a goal to hit 10 approaches in one night. Had a lot of fun, met some interesting people, and kept the energy up. Around my 5th approach I met a girl.

We vibed, but this is where things go off track.

I stuck with her trying to make it more of a on the spot date and looking back when I asked her when we will go on a date she was wishy

We exchanged numbers, and kissed goodbye. I think she just wanted attention...

— I ended up investing more energy into trying to turn that interaction into a “date,” instead of continuing my goal of approaching other women.

The next day, her texts were playful but clearly signaled disinterest. She even joked about not remembering our conversation or the kiss.

At first, I felt disappointed, but then I realized the takeaway:

Don’t slow your momentum for someone who isn’t fully engaging.

Number of approaches isn’t just about quantity — it’s about calibrating energy and signals.

Even when a connection seems promising, always protect your energy.

I could have left it as a fun interaction, kept my composure, and continued approaching others instead of over-investing in one girl. This experience is a reminder that practicing game is as much about learning when to pull back as it is about making connections.

Lesson learned: shoot your shot, have fun, but don’t let one interaction derail your night.

Honestly I was out partying untill 4am the night before and looked like trash so the fact that I just 5 approaches is a win.