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ConversationSuitOfWolves/r/seduction24/01/26 07:17 PM
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ConversationSuitOfWolves/r/seduction21/09/24 12:44 PM
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The point is that most guys (I don't know about you) encounter situations where it takes more courage, or where it's easy to make excuses not to, or where it could be perceived as being borderline inappropriate. Maybe you never fail to approach any woman you're attracted to, regardless of how you feel. Most guys aren't like that. I will say one thing. Having a line can help me so much in these cases, as opposed to just bluntly stating what I want. As in all I'd be able to think of there and then…
/r/seduction11/08/26 06:25 AM
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Are you ready to talk about it?
/r/seduction10/08/26 07:54 PM
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I would like to hear about what happened to you? Please?
/r/seduction08/08/26 07:35 PM
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How did you get me-too'd? Tell us!
/r/seduction02/08/26 07:56 AM
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But meeting women outside of work has never stopped me hitting on women in the workplace! Altho yes, I work a 50 hour week and i'm mostly too tired to go out any time I get a weekend off. I'm in Ireland where employment laws are good tho. I'd love to hear more about what happened to you. I take it u either hit on a psycho who knew the CEO, or you didn't read the signs first. In any case, I'm hardly going to take the advice of a stranger on the internet when they won't even tell me their own stor…
/r/seduction01/08/26 07:31 PM
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How many couples do u know that first met through work? Why rule out yet another option?
/r/seduction01/08/26 05:58 PM
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I'm of the view that his new content is not as good. I feel he's basically said all there is to say in the hot seat, and what else can a guru do only keep putting out new content. Besides, I'd never pay for it.
/r/seduction29/07/26 12:34 PM
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Chasing her again will only allow her to hurt you more... if that was really her intention. She probably knows she can hurt you easily so why wud she wanna do it again?
/r/seduction29/07/26 12:32 PM
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Fresh in-field??!! I thought he went into self help since 2018. I definitely have not liked the way he's evolved in talks he gives since 2016ish. It's the hot seat stuff I'm looking at... I think most of that was filmed between 2010 and 2015.
/r/seduction29/07/26 07:56 AM
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once again, u can see why it seems like u're suggesting that one can't "chase ass" and self develop? that it has to be one or the other... i.e why u have him still living at home at 35
/r/seduction28/07/26 04:30 PM
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ah don't be a drama queen
/r/seduction28/07/26 03:29 PM
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He said he's got nothing to lose and that he's going to go for it! He can do that while gettin his life together. I hope u're not saying that he needs to get his life together FIRST... and that only then should he get out there to try his luck. There's never going to be that one point where you think "ah, my life feels complete today"! It's not the best way to make your point... by looking up someone's other posts and then acting as if that person doesn't already know what their shortfalls are.
/r/seduction28/07/26 03:24 PM
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Well u can't fault him for being 5'6!
/r/seduction22/07/26 03:19 PM
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"I’ll be at the bar if you want to catch up when you’re done.” Ah come on man, seriously? Are you saying that's more likely to work than what Owen did? Is that girl then likely to come looking for you at the bar?! You probably can't picture it either, right? I mean, what did you do to demonstrate value, or connect with her, in order for her to come looking for you at the bar? That's all great if your main goal in life is not to offend anyone, but very few situations with girls are ideal scenario…
/r/seduction22/07/26 09:19 AM
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it was another poster who made the "scientific" comment, altho I'm not sure if I agree with it or not.
/r/seduction22/07/26 08:58 AM
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Who is "she" in reference to Owen?
/r/seduction21/07/26 11:30 PM
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Well being realistic about that video of Owen (it wasn't an anecdote), it could go either way. If you had the right energy about you before you said it, and if you said it the right way, then it could go fine. If Owen saw that the girl looked confused by his comment he'd be able to address it. I think what you're saying, is that if an PUA instructor is able to show themselves doing one cool thing infield with a girl, then they are in a position to give the impression that they do things that cra…
/r/seduction21/07/26 09:54 PM
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I like Todd's thought processes, altho I do feel a bit unauthentic sometimes when applying some of his tactics. I try to say "fake it til u make it" to myself when doing these. But I shouldn't be so worried if some random girl thinks I'm fake anyway.
/r/seduction21/07/26 06:45 PM
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I shall resume being scammed.
/r/seduction21/07/26 06:35 PM
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You didn't like that I said Luke is fat. I wasn't judging him merely by that. I listened to him for like 15 minutes, and nearly fell asleep. The poster below (Pristineonk) gives an honest take on Luke, which I wasn't surprised to hear!!!! I guess what I was trying to say was that the popularity of Owen and Todd seems to correspond with my impression of them... that's often the way in life. I'm sorry but it is harder to take a fat person seriously. In my experience most of them have no impulse co…
/r/seduction21/07/26 06:27 PM
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I've never seen an uncle staring at a girl... blood related or not!
/r/seduction20/07/26 11:48 PM
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It's the challenge of seeing am I able to put a smile to that sourpuss!
/r/seduction17/07/26 11:37 PM
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Was it silly of you to go and ask sum1 how long they'd be on a machine for her, as if she's a princess? If I'd have done that, and then saw her giggling, then I wouldn't reveal the answer unless she asked again. As in, leave her wonder what u really spoke to the guy about. So in ur case, she giggled (which is kinda rude) and you give her what she wanted at the exact moment she was rude! What does that say to her about u? Imagine if u got into an argument with the guy? She'd definitely be gigglin…
/r/seduction10/07/26 10:14 AM
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*we all have seen... I'm not on instagram
/r/seduction10/07/26 09:49 AM
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Yes, he's putting on an act in general, but that's not necessarily observable at the moment he approaches. Telling someone u think they're "gorgeous" isn't putting on an act! I can't see what's so bad about the open. Watched it again, and all I can see is that he maybe goes for the handshake too quick without actually giving her a chance to react to the compliment. But Jeff certainly didn't point that out! Other than that it's a solid approach. No, your boy Jeff immediately goes into talking abo…
/r/seduction07/07/26 09:44 PM
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People are indeed going to respond with all sort of things in a public forum... including you! The question still stands... what part of what I said made u assume I didn't gather that the narrator was pointing out that the boss was putting on an act?
/r/seduction06/07/26 08:44 PM
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I am not sure what to make of that but I can't help but think that Owen (the only intelligent one of them) would have a good argument against what you're saying.
/r/seduction06/07/26 02:57 PM
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Why do you insist in acting as if I didn't understand that? If you don't wish to comment on my points, then why post at all?
/r/seduction05/07/26 08:02 PM
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It never was unclear what Jeffy meant. It's just he labours the fuck out of it. Over all it's a shit analysis he's done, for the unrefuted reasons I pointed out. Your time stamp links to the eye colour game... which he's also wrong on.
/r/seduction05/07/26 01:37 PM
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The problem is Jeffy telling us that this guy is shit over and over is neither interesting or helpful. As a matter of fact, the bosses style - if it were tweaked a bit - isn't actually that bad. As I already said (to quote myself) "the reality of chill-style game is that it can work great, but sooner or later there will be a guy who is more stimulating (perhaps like like the boss) who will stimulate the girl more an win her over".
/r/seduction04/07/26 10:25 PM
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So don't be oneself?
/r/seduction04/07/26 08:32 PM
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aren't u the guy who did a pointless hidden vid on 2 girls in ukraine recently that had nothing to do we PUA?
/r/seduction04/07/26 07:51 PM
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And where did I say I didn't believe you?
/r/seduction04/07/26 05:02 PM
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I don't know. I doubt you'll get the answers you're looking for here. But I will say one thing... never look away instantly if eyes lock. You don't have to stare but it's important to show her that you're comfortable holding eye contact. Even if you unexpectedly see an attractive women when you feel unprepared, always hold her gaze just for at least a second just to get a sense of what you're dealing with. There's so much to be told in that moment. If you look away, she'll probably assume you're…
/r/seduction01/07/26 05:26 PM
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and who were u tryin to impress with that lie?
/r/seduction28/06/26 05:27 PM
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u've prob never thought of it this way, but women choose the best... we can't all be the best... especially if we're wasting our time here on reddit.
/r/seduction09/06/26 07:50 PM
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IF? Ha. Not all of us have other options.
/r/seduction09/06/26 07:32 PM
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not all of us have other options dude
/r/seduction09/06/26 07:31 PM
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you're thinking of relationships, and not one night stands. wrong subreddit
/r/seduction09/06/26 07:31 PM
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Your username is very similar to the OP's.?
/r/seduction05/06/26 03:38 PM
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Dude, Gilmour was clearly the better looking one when they were young. The point being that it was his genetics. Not irrelevant.
/r/seduction04/06/26 07:45 PM
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"When dudes in this sub say "I'm just ugly" - first ask them if they're healthy. 9 times out of 10, they're not living a healthy lifestyle." How do you know it's 9 times out of 10?! Have you met them? Was Nick Mason of (Pink Floyd) unhealthy? Did he eat less healthy food than David Gilmour? Not disagreeing with you on the broader issue. Just highlighting how pointless the whole post is.
/r/seduction04/06/26 06:35 PM
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Would you mind explaining to me what that OP is on about in that first link. He seems mad, and they're all trying to pretend that he's not.
/r/seduction29/04/26 08:58 PM
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But why is he a right wing nut who blames Ukraine for the war with Russia, and says that Trump is better than Biden was?
/r/seduction29/04/26 08:56 PM
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That would make sense. But how did you hear about the other posters being on his payroll. Does he make much money out of it I wonder?!
/r/seduction27/04/26 07:50 PM
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Well Drake's already dancing with the girl in that video. It's not like we get to see him move up on her. I don't know if it's as simple as grabbing her hands. Yes, some guys might be able to make it look that easy, but think of how awkwardly that could go! Before grabbing her hands, don't you first need to make eye contact, and see how she reacts? Only if you've been able to dance quite close to her would you be able to grab her hands. Personally I think the hard thing with dancing is that reje…
/r/seduction21/03/26 09:44 AM
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I'm wondering about that... so average looking guys can afford to be a bit try-hard, but good looking guys can't? altho I only read 1 para of OP b4 it got deleted
/r/seduction01/03/26 04:57 PM
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why u delete ur post?
/r/seduction01/03/26 04:55 PM
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The below commenter has made a very convincing rebuttal to your advice, and I am convinced. “Hey this club is great and all, but I can barely hear myself think...". Translation - I'm not entirely comfortable here as my seduction skills aren't good enough for club game. That's what it seems like to me. Has this sort of thing worked for you?
/r/seduction10/02/26 09:14 AM
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Who says I'm not getting laid? Straw man argument if I ever heard one.
/r/seduction09/02/26 08:49 PM
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No, I didn't mean the whole time the guy is talking to the girl, that he's not saying anything. I meant to whole time he's "giving advice" to the viewer he's not really saying anything... just a dumbed down version of RSD advice.
/r/seduction07/02/26 09:42 PM
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I really hate that American word, woke, that no one can agree on the meaning of, and that was originally stolen from black people. I was under the impression that young conservatives claim it means that a person is too politically correct, over-sensitive, or wanting to see injustices where there aren't any. So how does a girl not being offended by a guy bluntly asking her for sex, make her woke?! I'd have thought that the woke girl would be the one to get offended by that? And btw, your guy John…
/r/seduction07/02/26 09:34 PM
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Maybe he does make a point or two. He’s just so unconvincing in comparison to Owen Cook.
/r/seduction07/02/26 01:20 PM
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When u say "have an after party" do u mean to have an actual after party? bcoz that's easier said than done. I'd need to call lots of friends. Or do u mean pretend to have an after party to baby-step her to my place? I'm all for being open. I'm just surprised at this gimmick still being recommended.
/r/seduction06/02/26 10:23 PM
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Trust you? It's not like Dr Glover is out in the field 4 nights a week, is it? It's easy to knock someone. I've known of Owen since 2016. I don't know how long u've known him (or of him). I never found the other RSD guys interesting or memorable.
/r/seduction06/02/26 10:00 PM
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Well all I can say is that there'll be a guy out there who's as adamant as you are, about the most genuine person in the world (whoever that is) being an idiot! I can't go with everyone's opinion, but Owen's advice opened my mind and helped me greatly.
/r/seduction06/02/26 08:10 PM
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The reason I'm still listening to him is because I've never heard better than him, so I'll always remember. I think he really hits the nail on the head with some things.
/r/seduction06/02/26 07:37 PM
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who do u think is the best PUA guru?
/r/seduction01/02/26 12:03 PM
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kicked out of what?
/r/seduction01/02/26 12:02 PM
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have you seen it too?
/r/seduction31/01/26 10:37 PM
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"It's not really a bad thing to create or be aware of your excuses." Well the being aware part is good, the creating part is not! "The problem is that there is no follow-up with solution. And why is that so? Because the solution feels too much or not enough." Follow-up solution for how to escalate if the approach does go well? That's not what my post was about!
/r/seduction25/01/26 05:07 PM
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"Just because these rationalizations are used by most guys doesn't mean you have to use them." No, those are my rationalisations. I contracted you use them!
/r/seduction25/01/26 01:36 PM
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I relate to that
/r/seduction24/01/26 10:19 PM
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And the fact that they thought you were stalking them proves what? What do we learn from that video?
/r/seduction24/01/26 10:18 PM
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Is she allowed to sleep with others too?
/r/seduction24/01/26 10:16 PM
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But if u just shared an excuse example from the beginning u'd have wasted less time!! But it's only ur opinion (with 5 down votes) that it's a waste of time. And u're afraid to back it up when faced with questions! I get it, u won't share bcoz u want to win an argument with a stranger online... satisfying ay? I still think u're one of the good posters here tho. U're different from the other keyboard warriors! This subs needs u man!
/r/seduction24/01/26 08:22 PM
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"... a lot of utility and reflecting on your mistakes. But this isn't what you're doing." I literally said "Don't read this thinking I don't understand how stupid some of these sound!" "It's actually life advice". - That's life advice in the context of being late for work and the boss not caring about your excuse. You're doing a false equivalent. That's the difference between lying to others, and lying to yourself. This is about sharing my thought processes to hopefully help each other re-evalua…
/r/seduction24/01/26 07:59 PM
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You're getting a little ahead of yourself thinking you speak on behalf of others. Does that mean that you've never made an excuse yourself? Couldn't it be possible that the excuse you made would be similar to one of mine here? Or are you saying there's no point in ever reflecting on one's mistakes, or understanding exactly what goes on in one's head when they chicken out? Could there be something learned from that? Man, at least give something away about your opinion that is oh so adamant!
/r/seduction24/01/26 07:36 PM
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Well that shouldn't surprise you. Am I right in saying you're not bringing any facts now with this, and are instead bitching about them, knowing that you won't change their behaviour anyway. It would be as hard as stopping the genocide in Gaza or stopping ICE from killing people, as to stop chodes talking BS. I guess you should restrict yourself to only reading field reports here. There is actually some good advice here, but most of us have heard it all b4. Is there a way on reddit to do a searc…
/r/seduction24/01/26 07:29 PM
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Dance or have fun?? I'd have thought of that!!
/r/seduction16/01/26 10:00 PM
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I believe both! I believe it's important to lower one's expectations for how special the things they say sound, as well as having lines to use. I probably only use one or two lines/gimmicks per night. Now I'm sure there's more to john's system than what u're saying there, but in hearing that, aren't there other PUAs than advice the very same about how u shudn't learn lines and that? I first heard that advice from Owen... he's said u shudn't feel like u need to have special things to say... as he…
/r/seduction11/01/26 11:32 AM
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Well thanks for sharing. Not going to knock John. I watched some of his stuff before. I may have a mental block for him as I don't like him. However I can't say that his advice is bad... he does seem to talk a lot of sense. It's not just temporary confidence I get from Owen. That way yes it could be considered a 'trap'. Seeing as you warned me about Owen I'll say that I just don't think I'll wake up some morning really regretting that I bought the hot seat! After like 8 years of feeling the hot …
/r/seduction10/01/26 08:38 PM
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Well there's not much to follow from him anymore but I feel he's the only one who's helped me. Who would you name as the best pick-up artist there's been?
/r/seduction09/01/26 10:44 PM
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There's a way to critique every method. You know Owen doesn't go as far to say women "won't be attracted to you" if you're state is low. His method of upping one's state never caused me to be more insecure when I'm not in state. A person may as well try and get themselves into a better state if that's possible. That's all he's trying to say. Maybe Owen, as a guru, has come across opportunities to make a lot of money and realised that it mightn't necessarily help people that much, but I don't thi…
/r/seduction09/01/26 03:37 PM
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Chase = scammer Now I have seen a few other PUA gurus talk a certain amount of sense from time to time... enough to make me think that I could have a look at their youtube channel every now and then if I were capable of ignoring the stuff I disagree with. But this Chase guy has all the red flags of a scammer.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/25 05:01 PM
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That's a weird site (girlschase) and forum (skilledseducer). There's a lot of self aggrandising over there. You're very much reminded of the hierarchy as a forum user. It's impossible to read any articles on the site, because as soon as you start reading, there's tonnes of quotes to other articles... at least two per paragraph. So you start reading about, lets say, the topic of flirting, and then you see in the first paragraph, something like "I did a run down on the basic principles of flirting…
/r/ExRedPill31/12/25 04:47 PM
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I decided the topic, so yes it is black and white. I never said the answers can't be simple. But if you start quoting a movie, and then talking about other things that go without saying, like tonality, and getting a vibe, then that's clearly not on topic. I said in the original post that i'm not looking for tips on how to be a better conversationalist. You should have just said that you can't think of a single time from your entire life where u'd have preferred to have said something differently…
/r/seduction30/12/25 09:48 AM
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Anything isn't considered specific in comparison to the vagueness of that poster. It's amazing to think that not one person can think of a single time in their entire life that they would have liked to have said something better!
/r/seduction30/12/25 09:17 AM
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I guess, but that's yet another irrelevant comment from you in the context of this thread. It would be like me saying Lions live in Africa.
/r/seduction30/12/25 09:15 AM
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"tonality" - goes without saying I guess, but I'm not thinking about how my tonality is perceived when talking with someone... I'm thinking about what I'm saying.
/r/seduction30/12/25 09:10 AM
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You mean you can't think of any time that you could have said something better?
/r/seduction29/12/25 11:41 PM
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That's a canned line from a movie... not something you realised you could have said in a real life experience. Have you had any real life experiences? Are you capable of reflecting? For the love of God? You might think that movie line would sound cool with the way it's worded, but if you ever end up in a situation that remotely resembles the one in the movie, you'd still have to change the wording of the line itself to make it seem as if you're coming up with that line on the spot.
/r/seduction29/12/25 11:02 PM
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for the love of god, u're talking about a life decision that u regret. that has nothing to do with the post.
/r/seduction29/12/25 06:50 PM
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There's a book in everyone, and that's where it should stay! Look at what you could do with that time instead.
/r/seduction20/12/25 10:11 AM
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u brought it up... i dont believe that about a girl having so many options... getting 100 matches does not translate into that girl getting a relationship with her preferred match. The match is obviously very busy banging every girl he wants.
/r/seduction15/12/25 09:09 AM
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It doesn't matter what the title sounds like. You should read beyond that. You're implying that I'm desperate and actually thinking of trying this.
/r/seduction14/12/25 10:29 PM
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Carrying the belief that you are the best option the girl can have is a lot easier said than done.
/r/seduction14/12/25 10:27 PM
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Well if women have more options then doesn't that imply that there's a small percentage of guys on tinder that are very very busy.
/r/seduction14/12/25 10:14 PM
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I effectively addressed your response in the OP, but it didn’t stop you from saying it anyway!
/r/seduction14/12/25 01:25 PM
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I’ve always been confused as to in field was banned. Maybe for about 6 months back in 2019, but now people are unfortunately uploading again to YouTube. They may as well not uploading anything, because nothing will ever be as good as RSD, and I have the hot seat!
/r/seduction14/12/25 01:24 PM
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You don’t believe in amping up one’s state? U may as well approach when on a high if possible. Tyler at least blurred out the womens’ faces. There’s a guy now called A G Hayden, and he doesn’t blur their faces! Do you think Tyler doesn’t believe his own advice.
/r/seduction14/12/25 01:15 PM
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Well RSD Tyler thought about it too… and he’s got quite a bit of emotional intelligence.
/r/seduction14/12/25 01:05 PM
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Well, yeah, but I wouldn't go as far as to say "infinitely" more emotionally intelligent. Come one? Some go home with psychopaths after all.
/r/seduction12/12/25 10:05 PM
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There's someone to say that about every pickup coach. I know this one is a little strange, and I think it wasn't meant to be taken literally. But I think Tyler was BY FAR the best.
/r/seduction12/12/25 10:03 PM
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But all that doesn't say anything about the female psychology to the ploy, which is what I'm trying to get at here. Edit - Don't worry, ratfooshi (above) has answered my question.
/r/seduction12/12/25 08:06 PM
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Well there's actually nothing extreme about it, if you're likely to never meet her again. And so what if she found out you were lying? The worst that could happen would be that she'd tell a few people you're gay. Could be worth it!
/r/seduction12/12/25 08:03 PM
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€10 off, thanks. Ok, whats involved in sending it over?
/r/seduction10/12/25 01:49 PM
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i'll giv u €60... take it or leave it.
/r/seduction10/12/25 09:39 AM
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sorry, horse thing?
/r/seduction09/12/25 08:50 PM
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Are u involved in porn? I never thought I needed RSD stuff... I'm just sayin if I wer to buy anything it's be the hot seat. It would add a little bit to my repertoire.
/r/seduction09/12/25 08:28 PM
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oh sorry, i didn't see that earlier "in the same body" comment.
/r/seduction09/12/25 08:16 PM
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Do you mean to say that in the "example" that "we" would look identical? When you say we "have attraction", do you mean to say that "we" have attraction for the girl, or that "we" are attractive to the girl?! How do you know what that girl is and isn't attractive to? You seem to be assuming that you have the exact same level of looks, and game as Owen. There's be so many other variables going on apart from it being a numbers game. You over confidently ignore all that. Ha!
/r/seduction09/12/25 07:40 PM
2

So what happened with those girls? And why on Earth were you in Ukraine? No wonder she called u crazy!
/r/seduction09/12/25 07:26 PM
1

but it wud be quite a conincidence if you both had the exact same percentage success!
/r/seduction09/12/25 07:17 PM
1

I was gonna buy it but I didn't. I 4get how much... mayb $180 or something like that.
/r/seduction09/12/25 03:16 PM
3

I like that he shows himself get shot down. I think a lot of coaches wudn't be comfortable showing that. I assume he explains what he could've done better after showing himself being shot down.
/r/seduction09/12/25 02:58 PM
3

But how much more? Is there like 2 hours worth of content, or 10 hours? And when u say more of the same do u mean it's every bit as fantastic as the stuff i've seen? in other words that he demonstrates yet more examples of how to apply his principles.
/r/seduction09/12/25 02:39 PM
1

I'd suspect so. But were any of them caught in the act of using an actress?
/r/seduction06/12/25 10:35 PM
1

Tyler was good up until roughly 2014. Then it seemed he lost respect for his students. He'd mock their questions and stuff. He still retained the energy and humour, but he was no longer interested in in-depth discussions.
/r/seduction06/12/25 12:11 AM
1

And the people who do in-field seem dumb as shit!
/r/seduction06/12/25 12:08 AM
1

There's actually plenty of PUA stuff on youtube. It's just all incredibly stupid and they just don't use the term PUA anymore.
/r/seduction05/12/25 12:22 AM
-2

I noticed that too, but I think he means that he applied his process as well as he could. For example, did he hesitate b4 approaching, did he over-neg or over compliment, did he stay with her after he knew it was time to go.
/r/seduction29/11/25 02:27 PM
38

It's always the most honest posts like this, where the posters share detailed descriptions of their experiences, that get the least likes. Whereas anytime a poster wants to act like an expert and post a load of sweeping statements, they get bombarded with likes. There's another heap of shite post that just came in the same time as this ('go on a cruise to get with women') that's already on 180 likes.
/r/seduction29/11/25 02:17 PM
1

I thought it was 'how to pull women on a cruise' and not 'go on a cruise if u want to pull women'. Fuck sake. Might be some truth to what u say here, but no one should recommend going on a cruise for no other reason but to pull women.
/r/seduction29/11/25 02:12 PM
1

u mean thinking ur way n2 a better mindset, or by working on oneself to be better and then eventually valuing oneself more, as a result?
/r/seduction24/11/25 07:16 PM
6

Did u ever get slapped in the face by a girl u wer tryin to flirt with? It means she's cross, and I find it hard to believe u'd take it lightly. I don't think u'd b able to convert that to playfulness by slapping her on the ass! I can't picture it.
/r/seduction24/11/25 07:11 PM
-6

Well he made it pretty clear. Was it his reference to the filter that threw you? He didn't mean a literal filter. Should I explain the metaphor?
/r/seduction24/11/25 06:58 PM
1

Well obviously, but one can't just wake up and decide they're going to value themselves more than the correct value they put on themselves unconsciously.
/r/seduction24/11/25 06:54 PM
1

Oh right, well my idea of a fun weekend mightn't look like fun to others!
/r/seduction23/11/25 09:34 PM
1

So you put attractive women on a pedestal unconsciously with the exception of your attractive female friends that you're not attracted to? Okay. You know the only real way to take attractive women off the pedestal? Feed them nothing but junk food until they become fat and ugly. Then your brain won't unconsciously put them on the pedestal. It's okay if they're on the pedestal at the back of your mind... if they weren't, you wouldn't view bedding them as a conquest.
/r/seduction23/11/25 09:12 PM
4

I'm not saying anything u said is wrong, but what's in it for you making this lame post? You want to act as if you're an expert?
/r/seduction23/11/25 09:04 PM
1

Well this is a seduction forum, so getting the girl into bed is the main goal for most posters.
/r/seduction21/11/25 12:09 PM
3

The solution is to observe what good traits the jerks may display, and leave behind the bad ones... taking the best of both worlds. U say with such certainty that it's the patriarchy that conditions women to think a certain way. Who is the patriarchy? Do the organisers of it meet in a room once a month or something? It will never be known for certain how much of a role the patriarchy (media as I think of it) plays in this. I, being a believer that art mimics life, more than the other way around,…
/r/seduction21/11/25 10:05 AM
2

When it comes to a one night stand, not many men out there have a problem with a woman settling for them! After all, it 'likely' means you're punching above your weight, so take it while it's on offer.
/r/seduction21/11/25 09:44 AM
0

But what's so bad about getting rejected.. whether by using a poor technique or not?? How else are they going to get it OUT of their heads, if it's so well ingrained. Are u saying that if they sit down and think about what u said here hard enough, that it will get all the bad advice (that they currently think is good advice) to disappear out of their heads? Being honest, if u look back thru the posts in this subreddit, I don't think you'll see that much manipulative dark psychology methods. Besi…
/r/seduction20/11/25 06:46 PM
1

You don't seem to be addressing my point about making decisions equally with a girl... whether u think that's ok or not? U didn't say what u think of the examples of leading that i gave. I don't have people following me on a daily basis so maybe I'm not a leader. I think what i'm gettin at is that I feel the need to lead is over-hyped in PUA. There's no point in leading for the sake of leading... if one has good attributes, they'll lead naturally when it's needed.
/r/seduction20/11/25 05:28 PM
-3

Incorrect, title should be "fix your incel mindset BY going out and approaching women". The problem with your statement is that it reinforces the idea that "you are not enough as you are", take my advice and one morning you'll wake up and feel "I'm enough today". How long does it take to fix one's incel mindset, and much more wasted time elapses in the process? Do they just fix their it in the time it takes to read your post, or does it take several months?
/r/seduction20/11/25 05:20 PM
1

But who says I'm a leader? Only a very small percentage of the population really lead. So once again, what's leading? Do I need to be the one who takes her by the hand and says "hey lets go over here", or decides where we'll eat? Sometime I do that... but sumtimes I don't. What if each one of us makes decisions an equal amount? Like say, think of that buddy of yours who you have mutual respect for. Do u feel u lead him?
/r/seduction19/11/25 07:52 PM
2

I think you need to write a book about how you became quiet! You've only typed a paragraph here and I'm already fascinated. Don't leave people tell you it's as simple as "just going outside". You could get killed crossing the road if you did that. Do a bit more study and maybe post a few more threads here about the many conversation tactics u need to practice (at home alone) before going out. But don't go out yet. I will buy your book sir.
/r/seduction15/11/25 01:54 PM
12

so can one be all those things with a tiny cock and need viagra?
/r/seduction10/11/25 11:25 PM
-2

well i hope u realised it was a joke!
/r/seduction10/11/25 01:54 PM
-1

Hey, I know some good new video games you should try!
/r/seduction10/11/25 01:25 PM
2

Upgrading location - "Hey son, why are you moving to Halifax all of a sudden? have you a job lined up there?" - "Dad, I have concluded that women in that city value my kind of looks".
/r/seduction06/11/25 10:51 PM
2

awe can be created or maintained in about a million different ways, so it's pretty difficult to answer such a vague question, that's posing for intelligent question. I guess we're back to the same old boring conclusion as always... work on yourself.
/r/seduction06/11/25 10:37 PM
1

Yeah that's true, but then why do PUA coaches go around implying that the solution is to simply "have" an abundance mentality?
/r/seduction05/11/25 10:19 AM
3

Was it a kiss on the cheek or a proper kiss? I know what a gala is, but what's a conversation gala?
/r/seduction05/11/25 10:17 AM
2

Learn from David Beckham
/r/seduction03/11/25 08:26 PM
-3

Are we supposed to be jealous that you’ve girls ready to shag you that you aren’t even interested in? Or are we supposed to be appalled that her friends are so insensitive about the situation? Or maybe you’re trying to tell us that you’ve onitis in very long winded way. I’m scratching my head with confusion!
/r/seduction03/11/25 05:48 PM
12

Dude, he could so bang one of em
/r/seduction03/11/25 12:54 PM
5

Does the OP even want to bang one the friends? He didn’t even say. He’s got plenty of options and all he’s thinking about the shy girl who pretended she’d no time to date him.
/r/seduction03/11/25 12:46 PM
1

Ur friend, the natural, didn't seem to do a whole lot there?! I don't know, I think the best conversations often start when u make a comment/joke about sumthing they (or the girl) are doing (or wearing) at that moment. Then u end up having a laugh and later realising u don't even have their name, or know where they're from, etc. Sometimes flirting happens naturally, doesn't it, and other times it doesn't... as in the convo is going good, and u've done a bunch of stuff right, but there's somethin…
/r/seduction02/11/25 02:49 PM
1

Well that's probably part of it, but feeling "okay" in the first place is easier said than done. Everyone feels better after a win. There could be a multiple of reasons why the OP feels anxiety in every situation, and not everyone is the same.
/r/seduction02/11/25 02:25 PM
1

Hey, it sounds like you forgot to say please!
/r/seduction02/11/25 08:23 AM
1

I always view it as that you never get better at pick-up, you get more experienced. If you think u've recently gotten better, that's the thing that will hinder you the moment u see an attractive girl. In that moment u know deep down that u're still you, and that will never change... but on the other hand you're trying to protect your new self image. So it's not a good recipe. Tell us about some of your recent approaches!
/r/seduction02/11/25 08:19 AM
1

oh right, so there's your answer as to why she won't answer your calls. in your last phone call to her u talked too much about how u liked her body, and it made her think "he already told me that" and that made her cold.
/r/seduction01/11/25 08:21 AM
1

Please don’t. I beg you not. I’m so glad that everyone who gives up doesn’t need come on here and let us all know. This dude just got 83 likes for giving up!
/r/seduction31/10/25 12:32 PM
2

So what's your question? What did you talk about for half an hour? Was it going anywhere? Any mention of meeting during that?
/r/seduction30/10/25 06:33 PM
1

In what category of strange does she fit into?
/r/seduction30/10/25 06:30 PM
2

Or lack of…
/r/seduction27/10/25 11:21 AM
4

So if that girl happened to give u an unfriendly reaction, would u have come on reddit to tell everyone that most girls don’t like being approached as much as we think? It’s funny, u go to reddit to seemingly give advice, while also admitting that you’re inexperienced. You even said that u still wouldn’t have asked her out if she didn’t have a BF. But hey, u at least got to walk away thinking that ‘we so could’ve banged under different circumstances’! And now I definitely don’t believe your init…
/r/seduction27/10/25 11:13 AM
8

so was she lost? how early on did she say she'd a boyfriend? how it end?
/r/seduction26/10/25 07:50 PM
0

Women like being approached a lot more than I think?? How do you know anything about what I think?
/r/seduction26/10/25 07:38 PM
3

Who said anything about "from the start"? What if she says it with a smirk? As u get older u will realise that the world is not black or white.
/r/seduction26/10/25 07:23 PM
12

It's never that simple. As always, context is key. You could've thrown away yet another opportunity after a couple of minutes banter with a cute girl, just bcoz of one line. Even if you've women lining up for u at home, u still may as well stick around to get a sense of what she really means by it.
/r/seduction26/10/25 04:21 PM
1

Well the chances of her pulling back when she says it would be unlikely... unless you're viewed as a threat or something. But hey, nothings to stop you pulling back!
/r/seduction26/10/25 04:15 PM
4

The self amusement thing always confused me a bit. I mean I'm self content, but do I have to be amused (just from myself), if u know what I mean? I get amusement out of talking to others and asking them about themselves, but if I were sitting alone waiting for something/someone... I'd just sit there. Should I be smoking a cigarette, or bouncing my shoulders along to some music I'm listening to or something? I could be self amused just thinking about something, but not look self amused.
/r/seduction25/10/25 05:09 PM
3

You might find it harder to get an erection later on though?
/r/seduction25/10/25 02:20 PM
1

How common is it for couples to film their sex? Seems like a really stupid thing to do!
/r/seduction10/09/25 08:17 AM
1

Why you say AI recording, does that just mean you're recording someone? You decide when the recording starts and stops by hitting a button so what do the words artificial intelligence got to do with it?
/r/seduction09/09/25 09:00 PM
1

Fair enough, but what has any of this got to do with seduction. It's not even like any of the on topic posts are of quality.
/r/seduction09/09/25 08:56 PM
1

Blah blah blah... heard it all before. Whether they're insecure or not, they're well aware that they could have guys lining up to bang (or even date them) and you don't. So yeah, they get to pick the best guy... and if you're not as good as him then they're out of your league. Not everything is black and white, but there is such a thing as being out of someone's league. Sometimes you just have to call a spade a spade
/r/seduction09/09/25 05:51 PM
2

This has got nothing to do with seduction!
/r/seduction09/09/25 05:44 PM
1

At least it's not the kind of regret that makes you look stupid to others... could be worse.
/r/seduction09/09/25 05:44 PM
1

You were filming without permission?
/r/seduction09/09/25 05:43 PM
3

You can't even swim? Are you sure she's not trying to get closer to your brother through you?
/r/seduction14/08/25 10:39 PM
1

Sure there's plenty of women out there if u're willing to shag anything in a skirt. Anyone wud be glad if 95% of the competition was removed.
/r/seduction11/08/25 10:09 PM
1

well then 95% of men are scared/insecure. Be glad u dont have their competition
/r/seduction10/08/25 10:48 PM
2

That's a lazy analysis. We all lack a certain amount of self confidence, and we all have to deal with who we are. I use a thing called will power.
/r/seduction10/08/25 10:16 PM
2

Well there you said it yourself; anxiety is the difference. People don't go around building walls in their heads. It's an involuntary reaction to feel anxiety in certain situations. The reasons behind why we feel it sometimes, and other times don't, are complex... and we might not even be able to explain it ourselves. It can be quite overwhelming having to face the reality of one's status (when getting rejected) compared what one thought it was. So some guys would rather keep the level of positi…
/r/seduction10/08/25 09:13 PM
2

Big difference between talking to a stranger and attempting to seduce a beautiful woman that you've never met before. There's a reason very few try it, in spite of all men having heard advice like this at some point in their lives.
/r/seduction10/08/25 06:55 PM
1

But when you ride a bike you'll always be able to ride it. Whether being rejected is hard or easy has very very little to do with how much experience the person has, and depends on so many others things about the particular circumstances. It doesn't get easier as time goes on. Just like jumping into cold water never gets easier. It is what it is. We are who we are, but that doesn't stop me.
/r/seduction10/08/25 06:11 PM
2

Well I'm sure most would agree with those thoughts, but literally every second post is someone preaching to others as if they're the expert. Why not share an experience you had. Give us something that doesn't leave us wondering if you're a Chat GPT bot.
/r/seduction09/08/25 06:37 PM
2

why are u posting these cliches? what are you trying to sell?
/r/seduction09/08/25 05:53 PM
4

here we go again!
/r/seduction09/08/25 05:49 PM
1

But this post will only get up votes because all posts that aren't field reports seem to!
/r/seduction09/08/25 05:47 PM
1

she smiled at him though
/r/seduction27/07/25 07:33 AM
1

It mightn't be true but I've heard that the penis head becomes less sensitive if one is circumcised. Was circumcision advised to you, or did u just want to have it done?
/r/seduction26/07/25 05:18 PM
1

well I hope a fleshlight is similar bcoz I've gotten used to that. Been a year since I've been in a vag so can't really remember!
/r/seduction25/07/25 11:07 PM
1

I don't know if anything is worth being that busy for
/r/seduction25/07/25 10:52 PM
1

Can u elaborate on what the difference is?
/r/seduction25/07/25 04:19 PM
4

don't have an ex wife. I'm only 36!
/r/seduction25/07/25 03:27 PM
1

What do you like about it?
/r/seduction25/07/25 02:51 PM
-1

Maybe but I would love to see the jealous looks on my friends faces, and I would love to annoy my family with a young girlfriend too!
/r/seduction25/07/25 02:50 PM
1

Sorry, I've only read the book by Neil Strauss on "how to text older women who are NOT successful", but I've yet to read his book on how to text older women who ARE successful. I have it in the attic though. Would you like me to ship it to you? I'm currently reading a book on how to text young women who look like they're on course to be successful, and I'm really enjoying it. I'm currently reading the chapter "do not text her back until you've read this first". Not going out tonight... I'm enjoy…
/r/seduction25/07/25 02:28 PM
-1

This is yet another way we see people ending up interacting less as a result of technology. What a bitch was! She beckoned you over to her so she could do that. It's sad to see everything go online. But none of this surprises me. In this case she just used her headphones to be a bitch. She could've just said "I appreciate u coming over to talk to me but I'm just hear to do my work out". Still worth a shot.
/r/seduction25/07/25 01:58 PM
1

Did you ever use a fleshlight? Might it be possible to figure out a way to fuck her properly. For years I had a strange way of masturbating. I could never use the hand funnily enough and was worrying about how I'd get on during sex so I bought one.
/r/seduction25/07/25 10:38 AM
1

How are we supposed to answer that based on what you’ve given us?
/r/seduction24/07/25 10:50 PM
1

Everyone wants to be an expert as evidenced by this post
/r/seduction24/07/25 10:44 PM
2

So did your partners know you couldn’t come, or did you pretend u did when you didn’t. Did you just keep going for their sake? Did them knowing u couldn’t come make it awkward?
/r/seduction24/07/25 10:42 PM
2

And what positions were they?
/r/seduction24/07/25 10:38 PM
1

Oh right, no insight so?!
/r/seduction22/07/25 10:59 AM
1

why is ur avatar thing of a woman?
/r/seduction21/07/25 08:41 PM
1

Oh you mean as in "I can't meet today but will arrange to meet u some other time". I put myself out there so she wasn't so into me that she was asking me for my number. I wouldn't be comfortable going alone to watch a sport i dont follow in a bar and potentially seeing her with her friends and god only knows how I'd look! Yeah I was taking the view "oh I'll make an effort if she's willing to go with me now but I'm not going to go to the hassle of meeting sum1 I don't know if I'm really into". Th…
/r/seduction21/07/25 07:37 PM
0

can i ask why do u post here? if u're female isn't it more males u'd expect to be posting here. Or do females post to ask about how to seduce men bcoz i dont see it. I dont mean to b rude but it's just I see female posters saying stuff like "if a woman doesnt want sex u can't force them" and the guys are like "thanks but we know that".
/r/seduction21/07/25 06:39 PM
1

So ye all walked to the hotel and then suddenly decided to go to that guy's apartment instead?
/r/seduction21/07/25 01:00 PM
1

But in a good way, right? There comes a point in your life when you realise that certain things about you aren't going to change. Fascinating analysis though.
/r/seduction21/07/25 07:11 AM
0

Smoking is a dirty disgusting habit, and did I mention that it's bad for you? It must be the slum that you're handing them out in.
/r/seduction20/07/25 08:39 PM
2

watched some of that movie... the same girl now days would probably have earphones in... horrible world now in some ways.
/r/seduction16/07/25 08:18 PM
1

okay... i'll make sure there's no one else in the house!
/r/seduction16/07/25 06:08 PM
1

The series so, not the movie? Any stand out season/episodes?
/r/seduction15/07/25 06:26 PM
-1

u're the 2nd person to mention a movie i asked not to mention!
/r/seduction15/07/25 03:05 PM
1

already mentioned under the please don't mention list! for crying out loud
/r/seduction15/07/25 03:04 PM
1

yeah but I'd bet those same guys who are looking online, don't take the opportunities they get in person. And the very fact they can fall back on the online thing means they're prob less likely to get off they're arse for real life opportunities.
/r/seduction14/07/25 06:22 PM
1

But if most men had as much courage as they desired to have, then I'd assume less relationships would start from online dating.
/r/seduction13/07/25 06:31 PM
1

from "OLD"? I don't follow.
/r/seduction13/07/25 04:43 PM
1

Well fine, but just because I don't pretend I'm texting a friend doesn't automatically mean I'm ignoring all social rules, or that if I don't go with that gimmick that the only other thing for me to say would be "I want to have sex with you"! I'm willing to lie in order to be polite and if I she doesn't suspect me of lying. But I can't see her not suspecting me of not actually texting a friend! Come on. She might believe it if I left straight away. I mean if I were genuinely in a rush and textin…
/r/seduction13/07/25 11:22 AM
1

I feel that I'd find it hard to do all that without her knowing it's all an act. It might be different if you're well practised on that particular gimmick. But she's going to know that I wouldn't just have asked some middle-aged man (I happened to pass) for that same info to help me with my text. I don't know if I'd even be able make up a lie that quick about what the pretend friend would be asking me. My mind would be so focused on the web of lies I'd be weaving that I wouldn't be able to be pr…
/r/seduction12/07/25 08:10 PM
1

Thanks, so which one of those 4 situations would the one I described fall into, and what do you think you might do?
/r/seduction12/07/25 11:36 AM
1

MOstly the problem these days is that it's too big an overhang!
/r/seduction11/07/25 06:26 PM
2

I do and I don't. All the hair has to be above the opening. And there can't be any hairs around her asshole.
/r/seduction11/07/25 06:26 PM
1

so where did u see/meet carla and how did your start with her go? remember this is your diary now.
/r/seduction11/07/25 06:23 PM
1

I'm wondering if we're wired that way too! Knowing a woman is highly sought after as well as being attracted to her, will make for a bigger sense of achievement in getting her.
/r/seduction11/07/25 06:16 PM
1

literally anyone whose a crush on someone else will demonstrate availability and attraction towards them assuming they're not putting on an act. it doesnt mean the other person will also be attractive bcoz of it. i'm not sure about shyness... it's certainly not a alpha trait.
/r/seduction11/07/25 05:56 PM
1

You can't overcome it! It'll vary from day to day, and situation to situation but you can't overcome it. And if you ever do seem to overcome it, don't think that it'll never come back! But you're saying you read The Method by Neil Strauss and you're still thinking that something someone types here will help you get over the fear of rejection.
/r/seduction10/07/25 04:48 PM
1

Anyone who encourages black or white (your friend) thinking isn't good at giving advise on women. As questions go I'd say it's one of the better ones. It can be the sort of q that lets her know what your intentions are before the convo goes any further. What would you have said if you thought u weren't allowed to ask that? You'd possible leave dead air space... and that wouldn't be good.
/r/seduction10/07/25 01:10 PM
1

So what do you after the false time constraint if she ends up talking to you at length and later asks "didn't you need to be somewhere?"
/r/seduction06/07/25 09:14 AM
3

Thanks for sharing. Most of us are pretty shit when we approach anyway. I'm assuming most girls haven't heard those lines (like "u look like trouble") but they are seriously over-used in the PUA community. I've heard Todd Valentine use them all the time. I'm not really in a position to say this but I'll say it anyway. I seriously wouldn't be able to say "you're not my type" to a girl I approached. If you're looking for a ONS any girl that's attractive enough to approach is obviously your type...…
/r/seduction05/07/25 08:13 PM
1

You've probably figured out why you didn't try by now, but seeing as you've been thinking about this, I'd like to hear what you think should have done at the time... with the leverage you had?
/r/seduction07/06/25 06:21 PM
1

your thread sounds like one of the most typically talked about topics in pickup. Did u have to waste space in data centres by posting yet another.
/r/seduction07/06/25 09:04 AM
1

Easier said than done. No harm in trying, but I'm not new to game. The accepting the reality of the walk of shame is what I've figured out works for me.
/r/seduction07/06/25 08:55 AM
1

Yes RSDTyler was quite an eye opener for me when I first watched him. But eventually I just saw him as an entertainer and unfortunately seemed of the serious stuff.
/r/seduction05/06/25 11:21 PM
0

The ego is just giving a bit extra anxiety... it ain't getting in the way. I can't kill the ego... besides there's other benefits to having an ego too. Can't have ur cake and eat it.
/r/seduction05/06/25 05:23 PM
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I don't know if I need to try and make them look silly if it's a situation where I can see it's not going to go any further.... but possibly. Can u give me an example of a time u made a girl look silly for rejecting u, and how did u go about doing it.
/r/seduction05/06/25 05:22 PM
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Thanks for your reply but I like the walk of shame, it works for me. I need to be prepared for the worst case scenario and that way I can only be pleasantly surprised if it goes better. A badge of balls? I already know I've balls to do it, but what good is that if my state is temporarily lowered due to an awkward rejection? Like the other night a girl just nodded 'no'. I tried to get something out of her but then she just nodded again as her GFs watched. Not the nicest thing... but I hope it's o…
/r/seduction05/06/25 09:16 AM
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Why wish me a nice day if you're going to down vote my comment?!
/r/seduction04/06/25 01:02 PM
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230,000 in my city. But regardless of that I'm always going to be with my friends who might see. There'll often be one or two in the crowd you'll know me. I know that in reality they're not likely looking at me doing my "walk of shame" as I call it, but I often feel a bit of self image issues around this. I'd consider that normal and I'm able to push past it anyway.
/r/seduction04/06/25 01:01 PM
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Did he play a game of pool with them?
/r/seduction04/06/25 10:14 AM
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I think we've got another much needed female poster in here making sure that we're behaving ourselves! I don't "feel" used. But u could say she used me to validate herself... as in she probably walked out of that club that night kind of feeling like she could have any guy in there she wanted. Thanks for your helpful question.
/r/seduction03/06/25 10:59 PM
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Oh it's that obvious I was too quick? You sound like the sort who's happy going on three dates and being ghosted. How is it a PUA game?
/r/seduction03/06/25 10:54 PM
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I'd called it being daring with your humour... it's actually completely unlike me. But it was an accurate observation giving the way she was looking at me... oh by the way we ended up making out after I said that!
/r/seduction03/06/25 10:47 PM
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"what are u trying to do tonight" - might sound like a stupid question, but why is that a good line? What if she said "well I 'tried' to enjoy myself and I did"!
/r/seduction03/06/25 03:19 PM
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Hang on, am I seriously hearing a guy, in the seduction subreddit telling me to never take a girl home the first night i meet her???!!!
/r/seduction03/06/25 03:15 PM
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well it wasn't a PUA game i was trying... it wud be a bigger mistake if i'd just let it fizzle out, as i've often done b4
/r/seduction03/06/25 03:12 PM
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I'm a douche for making a move too early? You female?
/r/seduction03/06/25 03:10 PM
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Gee I'd feel really fake trying that after party move, but it doesnt mean i shudnt try it. Do u evrntually have to say "oh yeah I lied about the after party" or do they suspect it's a lie from the beginning and pretend to believe it in order to tell themselves they're not sluts! I was at the venue alone so it might have made it harder to pretend I've an after party at my place.
/r/seduction03/06/25 03:08 PM
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But was that straight from RSD or not?
/r/seduction03/06/25 01:54 PM
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So your "logical information" is that it's better to view it as a walk of pride rather than a walk of shame? Well the snuck premise there is that I would only fail to value your info bcoz I didn't pay for it, as distinct from it possibly not being the best mindset to have. Obviously every guy (who's specifically out to game) will know that he did the right thing in that scenario. But it's normal to have an "ah man" thought to oneself in that moment... it's just sometimes a hard pill to swallow. …
/r/seduction03/06/25 10:59 AM
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I know
/r/seduction03/06/25 12:14 AM
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I don't know, I guess I feel that some of them think "normal means" would mean social circle, under the influence of alcohol, or online stuff. I guess I'm under the impression that a lot of the cool guys meet girls via these means. Thus, that gives me the impression that a girl might think that if you need to resort to potential humiliation to get lucky, that it means you're not having any luck with those examples.
/r/seduction02/06/25 11:58 PM
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My attention may shift, but the point is that if I knew that person I'd remember it.
/r/seduction02/06/25 06:28 PM
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Ireland... which I'd imagine is similar to the UK in terms of men approaching women when sober... in that it doesn't happen. It's like the woman is thinking "if he needs to do this then he must be having no luck getting with women from normal means".
/r/seduction02/06/25 06:26 PM
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Oh my, there are too many women in here!
/r/seduction02/06/25 06:23 PM
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Oh right, I guess everyone who would read your post would have their approach anxiety instantly disappear due to hearing this new viewpoint. I'm just being brutally honest. This is a big part of the reason you don't see other guys approaching. Of course ppl don't give a fuck about what you're doing when they're in a club but it's when they do think about you that they form their opinion. I wasn't aware of the term being army slang. I think of this as being the walk of shame. You can't just tell …
/r/seduction02/06/25 06:21 PM
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Well obviously it's choice, but it's hard to say which of those options is considered "safer" giving that this is the seduction community!
/r/seduction02/06/25 06:13 PM
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Well then why not explain why u think it's creepy?
/r/seduction31/05/25 08:50 AM
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What makes all the difference in the world is that women don't want to seem easy, as well as the fact that they get many offers... so they can't sleep with all the guys they're attracted to. The thing u also fail to acknowledge is there's often an in between. She'll neither give u seductive looks nor be looking nervous. Her pussy mightn't be getting wet just from talking but still u might have a little bit of leverage and you've to be smart in order to use it to its max. Your choice of progressi…
/r/seduction31/05/25 08:36 AM
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It will be the girl's free will? I thought we were supposed to kidnap her if she said 'no'! Can you stop posting dumb stuff here and stick with the masturbation sections.
/r/seduction28/05/25 07:43 PM
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Well it seems posters (above) liftingnstuff and Certain_Process disagree with you. I get what you're saying but on the other hand, the more you talk the more you build a connection so u actually have something to go on when you make your move... otherwise it may seem random. She could possibly think this guy doesn't meet women through social circle so he's desperate to make a move on anyone girl who's somewhat attractive.
/r/seduction28/05/25 07:35 PM
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Digging this!
/r/seduction27/05/25 09:24 PM
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why is it that every comment u make is approx 5 words? you never contribute.
/r/seduction27/05/25 09:17 PM
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Why can't you just think all that to yourself? So this community is for talking about seduction tactics, as distinct from clearing the conscience of people who may feel guilty about learning seduction tactics.
/r/seduction27/05/25 11:28 AM
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But why would the OP copy and paste this here if he's not trying to sell something?
/r/seduction27/05/25 11:23 AM
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M19?
/r/seduction27/05/25 06:42 AM
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I hate this having to pretend you're not available thing when you actually are. Meanwhile she's probably pretending the same thing, and you both have to go through this childish power play. If you were meeting up with your buddy, what would you say? You'd probably just say "when suits you?". He's not going to go around telling people "YoBoyIsBOUNCY has no life guys".
/r/seduction27/05/25 06:37 AM
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But u haven't answered the actual question.
/r/seduction27/05/25 06:31 AM
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I do think that if you tick enough boxes for her, that she MIGHT tolerate you not knowing where to go for a date. I've heard enough girls' thought processes to know. So it's better to be seen as a leader and choose a place that's potentially not a good fit, than to have her choose a place that's a good fit. Because in reality you wouldn't be at the jazz bar, right? But as long as she thinks you would be, that's good. Chilling at a jazz bar alone getting drunk would not be good. I say this becaus…
/r/seduction26/05/25 02:25 PM
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have u ever had any experiences in trying to get physical (like holding hands) and it being awkward? as in the girl is probably thinking "oh he just touched me there bcoz he wants to tick that box"! Sometimes I fear it will seem like this when I touch her.
/r/seduction26/05/25 12:19 PM
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well of course, but on the other hand, in trying to do any sort of analysis on a group of individuals, it's fun to categorise.
/r/seduction26/05/25 12:15 PM
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Why not share some?
/r/seduction26/05/25 08:00 AM
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What kind of classes are these? I'm just wondering one thing that kind of annoys me is being around the guy who tries to make a funny remark when there's none to be made.
/r/seduction26/05/25 07:48 AM
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You always have such insightful posts when you're not posting in the porn sections! Are you female?
/r/seduction26/05/25 07:40 AM
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The problem with that is that there's never really a point when you can say to yourself "oh good. I've got my self esteem problem sorted now", and in the meantime you're guaranteed not to approach any women. Besides, it's not a self esteem problem. I believe that any man who isn't a super player feels this way about his approaches.
/r/seduction20/05/25 07:46 AM
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I don't think so... that poster posts a lot in sex subreddits
/r/seduction19/05/25 06:45 PM
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I was not saying that the post isn't about mindset. But when you're scanning the room you are in a different mindset... a less relaxed mindset, but never the less a different mindset, that has its own benefits. I'm not missing the pointing, and am just making my own one while pointing out that yours is a bit preachy and has probably been heard a hundred times. Confident men may not "seek approval" as you say, but they do scan the room. Confident men want to get laid too, and confident men know t…
/r/seduction19/05/25 09:54 AM
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Why do u have a girl as your avatar if you're not a girl? Or are you a girl?
/r/seduction19/05/25 07:59 AM
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I would if I could. Easier said than done man!
/r/seduction19/05/25 07:59 AM
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is there self help, motivation, or personal development or sumthing like that. I mean the internet is full of gurus on this kind of stuff. It's nothing to do with seduction. In fact that was what ruined RSA. They used to be a seduction company and they gradually shifted into self help.
/r/seduction18/05/25 08:54 PM
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Edited post.... I did in fact answer the question. Yes I continued the convo. I did not get a number though.
/r/seduction18/05/25 08:53 PM
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I got a fleshlight recently. I hope that's like the real thing.
/r/seduction18/05/25 07:15 PM
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Does your gf know you've never had a gf before? Just wondering if it must've been difficult getting her to view u as high status if you've never had a gf? Does she know you took Cialis?
/r/seduction18/05/25 07:15 PM
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wouldn't there be a better section on reddit to post this in?
/r/seduction18/05/25 05:41 PM
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That's not really amazing if you think about it... because we're crave validation for our ego.
/r/seduction18/05/25 02:20 PM
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Why are there so many preaching threads, instead of question threads?
/r/seduction18/05/25 02:19 PM
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Well I did. It was thinking about a girl that inspired to type this thread. It was nice getting ask her out yesterday. Technically there was no point because she lives 150 miles from where I'm from. She said no of course, but I liked the honesty of our interaction. Are you female or is that just a female avatar?
/r/seduction18/05/25 07:24 AM
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Not sure if you're selling something or not. I'm just saying scanning to the room has benefits too. There's benefits to both mindsets.
/r/seduction18/05/25 07:20 AM
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Easier said than done man. All that happens then is that you're grounded and relaxed, and maybe you have a good time chatting to the bar tender and you still end up going home alone. And then you eventually realise the real reason you came out and you say to yourself "okay I succeeded in tricking myself into thinking I was grounded and relaxed and I still didn't bang any girls"!
/r/seduction16/05/25 08:44 PM
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Congratulations! You are one of the view here who actually address the purpose of the thread. Yeah, it's a funny question isn't it. I'm assuming u just ignored it when she kept asking it. Maybe if u had said "I'd have to trust u to tell you, wouldn't I". Or u could've just sarcastically said "oh I can't answer that, then u wouldn't think I'm cool anymore". The answer u did give might sound good but when u think about it, it's meaningless. But man when I think of all the things that actually do u…
/r/seduction14/04/25 11:45 AM
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Of course there's benefits to viewing it both ways, but you don't have to take it to one extreme or the other. Don't get me wrong, I don't really think of them as shit tests either. Although it may appear that way when I discuss it. "Once you start passing them, you never "fail" a shit test again". I don't know... that's like saying once u start winning chess u never lose again. I wouldn't advice to think that you're above such tests. Sooner or later you'll encounter a woman who's presence makes…
/r/seduction14/04/25 11:31 AM
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I disagree. It's always more difficult when put on the spot, so seeing examples can always help. But you seem unwilling to share.
/r/seduction11/04/25 07:44 PM
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I wasn't asking why women shit test men. You obviously didn't even read the post.
/r/seduction10/04/25 07:52 PM
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We already know all that, now don't we.
/r/seduction10/04/25 07:45 PM
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Yes there may be a lot of guys who think "I have a bf" is a shit test. But generally speaking, just because it isn't a shit test doesn't mean it doesn't need to be treated as so. Like here for example, if she wasn't asking him for the jacket as a shit test, it would still up his status by giving the response he did. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EXdj_VnpeXU That British PUA guy mightn't have gotten anywhere with those girls, but his funny responses upped his state and kept him in the right min…
/r/seduction09/04/25 09:13 PM
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yeah but did u actually experience those being tried on u? or are u posting random examples?
/r/seduction09/04/25 09:07 PM
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well if he didn't put pressure on himself he wouldn't do it. It's not like he doesn't already know that success is more likely if it "feels natural" to her. "It should be more like excitement than fear". I remember trying to tell myself that too when I first heard it and it just confused me. You feel what you feel... no point in trying to tell yourself that the fear u feel is actually excitement and vis versa. There are complex reasons behind why we feel a certain way at any given moment so no p…
/r/seduction09/04/25 05:49 PM
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Did you go back to college in the end? I thought college would help with meeting girls in a natural way? If you quit your job to approach girls, then you were approaching girls from a frame of "I'm unemployed and know I'm not worthy of you", right?
/r/seduction21/09/24 03:09 PM
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No one is saying girls don't like logical conversations, but in the context of flirting, then no I don't think it would be the thing to get into a girl's panties. Incel here. Although I don't think of myself as one!
/r/seduction21/09/24 12:15 PM
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sexualize! so u've already been on a date with her? how about responding by saying "yes, lets do that" and then suggest a time and place.
/r/seduction21/09/24 12:09 PM
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What kind of toys?
/r/seduction24/08/24 07:17 PM
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