Because I've been in so many situations where I've noticed an attractive girl and not known what to do, it might have left me in insisting to myself that if I ever have proper partner, that I'll have to have involved us meeting in a traditional way... as in not through a dating app or someone introducing us. I just feel that having that special memory from the start creates a bond, as well as the fact that she might have more respect for you having done the initial work yourself. I said this to someone recently and they disagreed, saying that how two people meet doesn't at all matter as long as they're a good fit for each other.

My cousin who recently got married would be considered a pretty cool guy. But when he told the of how they met at the wedding reception, it involved him getting his friend to ask if she'd want to meet him as she worked in a different part of the building where he worked. Now of course there's nothing wrong with that as sometimes it just mightn't be practical to meet someone you notice in a natural way. But I just thought that it would've been nicer if the story was a bit better! But I guess there are a lot of situations where men don't have the courage to take the first step and the women forgive them for it and take them anyway. I wouldn't like my relationship to start on that foot. Anyone feel the same.

I hope I'm making a point here. I really don't know if what I said sounded silly or not!