I'm 32yo make I feel like the environment I put myself in and the people I surround myself around isn't really genuine people.

I wanna know what you guys do to change your dating life if you had these issues I'm going to list

Anxiety Depression Poor social skills Friends belittle you Low confidence but high standards for beauty Average income not providing a lifestyle to be independent 5'7 overweight with body dysmorphophobia (so I constantly check myself in the mirror) High stress(which I have gray patches in beard but baby face)

I don't wanna do this for dating purposes but have high confidence, high charisma, positive vibe and a better life that attracts better circle of friends and woman