Taking a break from this

Foreverseeking47 · 2025-11-02T12:10:22+00:00

The other guy is right that in the end, no one cares about your excuses. I mean, if you have some people you love, they obviously care about YOU, but everyone in your life and those who aren't yet will always prefer to see you winning than losing and having a bunch of excuses and using your past as to why you can't be winning. Women, even or I could say especially the ones who are intelligent, empathetic and kind will always choose the guys who bring results in many aspects of their lives above the guys who are a mess.

Look, I understand it's probably gonna be the hardest thing you will ever have to do in your life, but you have to take one day at a time and remove any power you give to any doubt or excuse or tendency to look into your past. From now on, you are pragmatic and only look at ways to improve as many aspects of your life as you can. I mean, do you have any other choice?

Many things are important like being in shape, dressing well, having good friends, having enough money to be comfortable and then some, etc. But in my opinion, the two most important things you have to master is your communication skills (that obviously include your ability to make people feel good and comfortable in your presence), with anyone, not just with women, and being a overall healthy human being physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually. You have to FEEL like a winner, no matter what you do. You have to love yourself so much that nothing you think about yourself could ever be seen as a negative. Actually, you don't even think about yourself all that much because, to go back to my first most important point, when you interact with people, you provide good energy and fun to them; who brings that fun? the guy who is self-conscious, or the guy who is completely loose and in the moment? You know the answer to that.

My answer is a bit all over the place but you get what I mean. You intuitively know what might be good for you and what might not be. Meditate, let go of all the bullshit from your past by first understanding that it has no bearing on what is possible for you today as long as you decide it doesn't, do things that propel you forward and never ever talk down to yourself. Accept what you've been through, it's made you who you are and I know you might not love that person today but you will never be able to change your experience of reality in a significant way if you give more power to your past than you give to your ability to change.

Last thing, you have no time to look at what anyone else is doing. Laser focus on yourself and what you can change TODAY. Repeat that the next day. Hope that helps.

LomoMojo · 2025-11-02T12:04:17+00:00

Start MMA.
Approach women outside in town, malls, stores etc.
Stay on track.

I guarantee you this will make a new man out of you.

Bullbythehorns25 · 2025-11-02T11:09:39+00:00

No one cares about your past or excuses, become a winner; that’s all that matters.

Start with fitness and hygiene and do approaches in the daytime.

TMGP19 · 2025-11-02T17:43:16+00:00

You need to quit those habits ASAP, otherwise you're cooked. Once your alcohol and porn free for a year and get to a decent weight via diet & exercise then start slowly approaching. If you delay fixing your life around it will get harder to get out of as you age.

Few_Competition_1989 · 2025-11-02T22:26:38+00:00

All of the things you described go away with two weeks of discipline. After that it's easier to stay disciplined.

You already know all you gotta do bro.

Title	Taking a break from this
Author	Plastic-Okra441
Upvotes	1
Comments	11
Date	November 2, 2025 10:57 AM UTC (8 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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