Me and my wife when things were good went to the shelter to get dogs and it was the whole reason we moved out of NYC. So we got our dogs at the exact same time. They were both abused bad. Min was in a house with 36 other dogs and covered in scars and hers was abandoned in a field and almost starved to death. She is not exactly a great care taker I have always been the one to take care of them vets, meds,walks anything they needed was on me. Now that we are splitting up she wants to take her dog which is a catahoula one of the most defiant and high strung dogs I have ever seen. Mine is a calm pitbull who just love to cuddle and ride in the truck. She has quit her job I got her making 70k and decided to be a stripper and works about 3 day a week way out of town. Well she stays in hotels those nights and he does not do good on travel. She took him over night the other night and my dog paced the house all night she did not sleep once. And she brought her dog back severely injured and tried to make it no big deal. Apparently he was playing with another dog and when he jumped his back legs spit and he slammed his groin into the ground har d. Well now his hips are messed up bad I have to pick him up to get him on the couch and to get off. I told her he needs x-rays because he is whining in pain and has trouble walking. She says he is fine. I asked her that if she wanted the dog to please take both they can't be separated that night was the first night ever. I have shown her all the research I have done about the harm splitting bonded dogs up and that the depression can get so bad that they can actually die. She is determined to split them up. Right now she can't have him because her new place doesn't allow dogs but in February she wants to move to a place that allows dogs. Plus her dog barks from morning to night. I live in a log cabin in the mountains nobody care how loud he is. She moved to the city.

Well me and my parents have come up with a plan They will come up in January and im going to give them the dogs to bring to Florida where he has a huge yard and a huge kennel for them. And the dogs love them. I plan on telling her the dogs got away from me when they seen some deer and I couldn't catch them. My parents will just take them and she won't really know what to believe because she doesn't know my parents are coming up and they are happy to do this. She won't let me keep both and she won't take both. I refuse to split and I love my dogs and dont want to give them away but I know its what's best for them. How did this women turn so cold hearted within a couple weeks

Is this wrong or am I making the best decision