I’m likely starting the process soon. Can some folks who are further along share if you’re having a healthy coparenting experience with one or more 16 to 18 year olds?

I have questions, like:

Let’s say it’s my wife’s day with our son. If he has a band concert at school or a baseball game, I should be able go, right? And my wife should, too, on her days, right?

What happens when one of the couples you all got together with regularly suggests a get together at their home on a day that’s not yours? Do you not go to respect the day of the spouse with custody that day?

How do you make plans with fellow parents and account for custody variations in a way that works?

Are any of you in family therapy after the separation for the purpose of getting along better (not reuniting)? What’s that like?

What else is and isn’t working?