I think after dragging myself through everything I have and allowing all the mistreatment I finally told STBXW to have some shame and never message me again. She left me for her AP and wanted to stay friends.

I tolerate a lot because I thought she was just going through it and would come back. Nope shes out there shouting from the rooftops that she found her person. Why message me happy new years? We don't have kids, the house sold, theres nothing there she told me she wouldn't get back with me, so what else is there to bother me about? Just to make herself feel better.

Its a rant but I finally just never want to see her name in my inbox again