How to follow up after meeting women in different countries?

star_wars_the_501st · 2026-01-03T22:51:19+00:00

Would appreciate any advice on how to proceed here thanks guys

Doctor__Finance · 2026-01-03T23:30:36+00:00

I also live in a coastal destination. 90-95 percent I meet with foreign women. I'd suggest not expect much most of the time, but in your case, she lives relatively close. Also, you escalated very good. So, don't start from the scratch on the communication, casually send a picture of a thing you both remember, like that club. Like: I was on my but just saw that place kinda thing. Try to escalate from that. Then maybe call her and make a plan or something. However, in economic wise, you might not want to invest your time and energy on that girl much.

Back2theCouture · 2026-01-03T23:57:58+00:00

I had a couple long distance hookups before. It’s not as easy as you need to maintain the momentum because of the distance. I usually stick to “keep texting at minimum just for logistics only” but that’s not really applicable in long distance, especially if she’s obviously still wanting to get pounded.

Should I try to get her to fly to Austria asap

This is what I would do first, only in one condition that she’s clearly eager to meet you again (you can tell by how soon she replies to your texts and her texts are far from dry).

But of course do not invest in her too much like buying her a ticket, that would absolutely show a desperation from your end. When she visits you you’d probably spend as much money as she would, anyway so it’s not about you being stingy or whatever.

Last but not the least; always keep in mind that long distance means your counterpart also has their own life that you don’t really know. Meaning that she may also have some local guys lined up for her (as well as an actual bf), that mindset would keep you grounded; balancing between not too desperate and not too eager.

CraPixelArt · 2026-01-04T04:16:35+00:00

exchange instas so you can send reels and reply to stories (just once in a while, not always). then you don't have to text her but you're still on eachother's minds whenever you see eachother's stories.

whenever you guys are going to be in the same area you can start normal convo -> flirt -> see if they wanna meet up

I live in an international city and have some casual relationships with visitors / cities I visit, we keep in touch on insta

Title	How to follow up after meeting women in different countries?
Author	star_wars_the_501st
Upvotes	0
Comments	7
Date	January 3, 2026 10:08 PM UTC (6 months ago)
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