I hail from Southeast Asia, where my family arranged my marriage to a woman I never found attractive when I was young. We now have two daughters. Two years ago, we had to relocate to the US for my business. While I love my daughters and don’t want them to endure the pain of divorce, I’m genuinely not attracted to my wife at all.

Now, here’s the peculiar part: I’ve developed an inexplicable preference for fair-skinned women. Despite my efforts to date outside of marriage, I’ve faced numerous setbacks. At the age of thirty, I’ve tried various approaches, including talking to potential partners, using dating apps, and more, but I’ve yet to find anyone who meets my criteria.

I’m at a crossroads, unsure of how to proceed, but I’m determined to find someone who truly resonates with me.