So to some it up my ex (36f) and I (32m) have been together for 10 years 2.5 years married. She had two kids (2f and 3f) when we got together. 6 years ago we had my daughter. 2 weeks ago she told me she had been talking to another guy and that she had developed feelings for him and needed time and space to see if what she felt was what she was missing in me or if she had truly been unhappy for the last 1.5 years. I stayed for the rest of the week and fought to try and save us. I brought up everything I could think therapy, consulting, you name it. But it didn’t matter I left Saturday and he moved in the same day. I’ve have given her and the kids everything would do anything for them. Ik that we won’t get back together because I get over the fact that I was replaced overnight. Im just struggling to keep it together. Every time I see her when I get the kids I want to tell her to come back but ik it’s not worth it. If we did get back together this would happen again and again. Where is a good place to start to heal.