I split up from my wife recently. I have the house and my 14 year old son. I discovered at a works do tonight that I might have more game than I realised. My challenge is if and when I get plates spinning to physically manage coordinating time between them and my son, who is the most important to me. I think I still have a little blue pill conditioning that says it isn't right for a son to see that his dad is polyamorous. My understanding of TRP is that nothing could be healthier for him than to see that being monogamous is not the only way and hopefully seeing his dad maintaining frame. That is still a mental process not a feel it in your bones process.

My question is then what tips and tricks do people have for managing a situation like mine?