Flirting via text

Realwoujo · 2026-02-17T04:36:58+00:00

You shouldn't be "flirting" over text. Text is for making plans to go on a date and keeping her warm between dates. Text her and invite her out to something. If she says no, stop texting her.

Broad-Cranberry-9050 · 2026-02-18T22:46:06+00:00

Same as the other text.

Dont flirt via text. The only time you should flirt via text is if she is as a first text in a dating app to get her interest in responding or if you guys are clearly into each other, have already hooked up type of thign and just texting late at night.

But you need to ask her out and just leave it at that. It's very easy to have first date conversations via phone and now the spark is gone.

invisibletraveler2 · 2026-02-19T15:56:50+00:00

I will part with almost everyone else here on this. It is a consensus here that you should never and connont flirt over text. While it is not ideal, I pick up the majority of my hookups by text. I have hooked up with four women in the last two weeks and all had the flirting and groundwork laid by txt. Two I met in public briefly and exchanged information. One on FB marketplace and one Instagram. They are all fit and attractive under 130lbs (for context, im swinging for the fences)

With everyone %100 of the game was by text so when we met up, it was brief vibe check and and then right to it. Also I will say this is not uncommon for me. I am 45 a single parent with a career, rental properties, personal buisiness and hit the gym everyday. I do not have time to go out and pick up women.

You can pickup girls by txt. It is not ideal, it is more difficult, but can be done.

Be genuine, clever and funny
Dont try to hard, read the room
Ask questions about them. You need information to reflect back. They may not be interested in your things. But they are interested in thiers.
Drop hooks. Say things that can be interpreted as flirty or dirty see if they take it.
Dont push it. If they dont respond, leave it. Maybe you can follow up later.
Audience matters. Im a single parent. I usually hookup with single moms (25-32) who are also to busy to be out looking. Sometimes I pickup a 20s girl with no kids, but they are usually getting theirs at the bar or club.

Title	Flirting via text
Author	cooliothecoolio
Upvotes	2
Comments	3
Date	February 16, 2026 7:11 PM UTC (5 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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