Why does this need to be gendered?

Low-Philosopher-2354 · 2026-03-17T05:50:34+00:00

A LOT of people seem to still believe the "99% of all rapists are men" thing but even more so, many of the women who say these things probably lack empathy for men, or consideration for other perspectives or actual research/introspection. Even more so, I can't help but wonder if some of these women are close to, or outright are rapists themselves and seek to deflect these things onto men. That one is a bit less plausible but I hear "it's different" with respect to sexual, domestic and other forms of abuse often enough that I can't help but wonder.

EDIT: Or what I consider to be the most likely culprit, a desire to monopolize victimhood for the privileges it brings.

ChimpPimp20 · 2026-03-17T13:17:42+00:00

Put this on the pointlsslygendered sub and see how they respond.

Specialist_Load_9953 · 2026-03-17T07:58:54+00:00

There is no universal definition of rape, but by some significant margin it’s not legally possible for woman to be a perpetrator of rape.

As you quite rightly point out many legal jurisdictions globally define rape as forced penetration by a penis; others take a more gendered take and literally state rape is a non consensual sexual act against a ‘woman only’ and then there’s even some unusual takes such as in India; where should a man had suggested to woman (not recognised in reverse) at any point an intention to marry her and then they have pre marital sex but marriage never come to fruition it’s rape.

In the rare and only instances women can be perpetrators of rape it is not in any jurisdiction a case of them forcing an unwilling man’s penis it into herself as that’s considered SA not rape. In the very small minority of jurisdictions that do recognise women can be perpetrators rape it’s only the case if they were to insert a foreign object into their victims body.

An incredibly significant matter of fact that I rarely come across anyone knowing is that Federally in the US and Canada the is no crime of rape; the crime one would be charged with is sexual assault.

So on that note; when any feminist presents any statistics on the matter of rape the immediate question must be; what is the definition of rape used in this instance that provides the figures that you’re presenting and have hung your hat on.

Remembering everything I’ve outlined here you’ll either immediately notice that feminists ‘oh fuck’ moment because they’ve never actually taken any time to legitimise the figure they’re presenting, they have quite simply seen the figures, felt that they like them and presented them.

This will likely be followed with a trying to reverse it on you as how stupid of a question to ask what the definition of rape is; when there is no universal definition of rape. it won’t be uncommon for them to not be able to define rape correctly or even be aware of there being no universal definition.

So next, straight to this or from the last point, most feminists in North America will suggest the definition of rape used is of course obviously what the government defines it as, which as we know it doesn’t define it.

Ultimately the rape definition used to provide the figure for that headline, slide, artwork or whatever it’s being used on is simply whatever the feminist that created that headline, slide, artwork etc wanted it to be.

In essence the numbers stated have no credibility, regardless of being close, way off or am I going say it… yes… yes I am… unquestionably on occasion are just completely fabricated.

AnFGhoster · 2026-03-18T02:52:49+00:00

Because people believe that "men commit 99% of bad thing" propaganda.

EnormousPurpleGarden · 2026-03-18T08:35:10+00:00

Because they genuinely don't give a shit if men get raped.

Mephistopehles · 2026-03-17T07:54:35+00:00

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MeanInterview7893 · 2026-03-19T03:30:27+00:00

Tbh women do it too but they get away with it because no one belives the victim can be a guy.

Title	Why does this need to be gendered?
Author	Late-Hat-9144
Upvotes	123
Comments	16
Date	March 16, 2026 9:39 PM UTC (4 months ago)
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