Our house she got in the divorce has appreciated so much in this market that she’s selling it and is able to put 20% down on a bigger home plus payoff her debt.

Meanwhile I am in an apartment, paying thousands a year in child support and in debt.

Hoping eventually things will straighten out but this poured a lot of salt in the wound.

Just feel like the struggle is never ending. I thought in my 40s I’d be coasting financially, not zeroed out and starting over like I’m a poor college student.

Imo marriage is a capitalist racket.