So there’s this girl that’s my coworker that I have been getting close to recently in the past year and we finally had sex for the first time yesterday. Now I don’t want a relationship with her, but I did suggest that we should be friends with benefits and she initially said that she was for it, but now she saying she needs to think about it. I don’t know if I was trying too hard or pushing too hard with what I want, but I don’t want to mess up this opportunity that’s been given to me. Do you guys think I should wait it out and play it safe where I let her text me when she’s feeling horny or in the mood? Also, I have seen her text other guys and it doesn’t make me happy but I think I just care too much. Any help is appreciated