If there are two concepts which really got me results are :

1) Abundance mindset

2) Polarisation

May 25

I was in Budapest for the weekend, on Saturday night met this girl at party from the get go she was very touchy and lots of EC. So after a while of chatting, I took her to the smoking area, sitting next to each other. I glanced at her lips multiple times while talking to her and she caught me and asked me what I was doing with a smile, I replied you know what I'm doing. She said she is an influencer there and can't be seen kissing me. Okay let's go somewhere else she turned that down. There was a moment where there was nobody and I just went for the kiss. It worked but I had bad logistics so added her on IG and flew back home on Sunday.

I tried texting her later but she was cold, so I forgot about her and moved on.

Nov 25

She texted me out of blue on IG , if I was visiting Budapest for the new year?

Me : No

Her : 🥲

Few weeks later

Me : you looked great in black dress (IG story)

Her : aha you look great too

Me : it's a pity if two people look great but don't meet

Her : I agree. Maybe we can manage something

Me : Ofcourse we will, let me plan something for us.

Her : sure thing 😉 .

Me : let's go to Spain, enjoy some sun 😉

Her : Spain sounds nice 😏☀️

Me : dec week 2 or Jan? What works for you

She ghosted me lol. I was like okay. Forgot about her again.

Apr 26

She : Hey I'm coming to your city on 3rd weekend for work. If you are free it would be nice to see you.

Me : come I'm free.

We met for coffee, then drinks and pizza had like a 5 hour date with lots of makeouts. End of the night I asked what she is doing after this, she said you. Okay but I had no condoms 😂 (didn't tell her that obviously) excused myself to the bathroom. Called a buddy who lives closeby but he didn't pickup fml. I went to the bathroom was talking to a random guy just explained my situation, he laughed and gave me one so happy ending in the end.

So yeah guys never chase. Without the abundance mindset I would have fucked this up by double texting being needy. If she is interested she will come to you. If not next.