Going out alone to a cub/bar alone (Part 2)

United-Implement-382 · 2026-05-17T07:01:06+00:00

I’ve been following your posts. How did you do tonight? Did you approach any women, if so how many?

PatientHaitian · 2026-05-17T12:10:58+00:00

You try becoming familiar with the staff like bartenders and bouncers? i used to hit a local bar only like two city blocks away from me. became really cool with the bartenders, tipped them generously and that way it never felt like i was completely alone. they also looked out for me. less wait time for drinks and even helped wing for me a few times. this only works for spots you frequent. but i highly recommend going to bars solo on less busy nights. easier to get familiar with staff and also talk to girls. you can clean up if there’s girls sitting at the bar. way more relaxed and the bartenders know what’s going on they’ll help you if they like you and they’re not overly busy

duke_awapuhi · 2026-05-17T19:33:09+00:00

Hell yeah brother. It’s all about baby steps. Rome wasn’t built in a day. Just keep getting more comfortable out there and you will start making moves

Realwoujo · 2026-05-18T18:13:07+00:00

Don't think about the competition or yourself for that matter. Just focus on enjoying the moment.

SecretGene007 · 2026-05-17T14:58:03+00:00

I just went out myself alone last night to Williamsburg in NYC. If you’re not familiar it’s one of the trendiest spots in NYC if for nightlife and in general. Let me tell you I have never felt so discouraged. I’m a pretty good looking guy and have massive IOIs during daytime when I’m out and about. But nightlife is a whole different game.

Here are some of my observations from Nightlife in NYC which is fairly nee experience to me.

Women are never out and about by themselves. It’s always a group and usually of more than 3 people.

Very hard to approach a lady by herself, approaching a woman who is in a group is 10 times harder. Approaching a woman in a group with guy one or two guy friends is 20 times harder.

The ammonia of really attractive girls is very small, relatively speaking. Most of the stunningly beautiful women were with boyfriends or in a group that had guy friends or a friend’s boyfriend.

I tried approaching one girl at the corner while she was on a phone scrolling, the interaction was respectful she even smiled, made eye contact and looked happy but she literally ran away after. Probably had to catch a ride or something else.

Title	Going out alone to a cub/bar alone (Part 2)
Author	extratrstrl
Upvotes	28
Comments	15
Date	May 17, 2026 6:56 AM UTC (2 months ago)
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