I want to make lots of friends that love going out and partying, is this realistically possible after college?

machimus · 2016-01-01T06:03:46+00:00

What did we say the last 50 times you asked this exact question?

TattedGuyser · 2016-01-01T06:52:00+00:00

I really don't know what you expect to get from this 'large partying' scene you seem so fascinated about.

And is your question seriously asking if it's possible to have an active social life after college? College is a very small subset of life, it's what.. 4 years where you are? You honestly think you have 4 years to establish a social life? Holy fuck dude.

Go read sidebar material, and when your done.. read it again. As many times as it's needed to sink in.

Geleemann · 2016-01-01T09:19:25+00:00

Sort your shit out

2comment · 2016-01-01T16:23:16+00:00

No, your life is over after college. You might as well quit now and go work for a library in a small quiet town and have 50 cats at home to keep you company.

empatheticapathetic · 2016-01-01T23:52:11+00:00

It's hard to find fun friends. I recently moved out of a place I was living and working because all my single friends did was smoke weed and watch TV. And my friends in couples act like they're 40 years old and do boring couples shit because they think it's sophisticated. I have been playing in bands my whole life and recently realised I have a lot of friends from that world who just live to play shows and party and despite it being a niche subset of people, it seems like I have more fun with them than all my former friends who had a fun/good college life and are having a boring decline in the rest of their 20's.

The answer is yes it's possible. Is it possible for you? Maybe. Maybe not. Basically all you can do is be vulnerable and try and find friends through different mediums. Depends on where you live. What type of activities are available. A big city is the place to go. Easier to make friends. Maybe a music scene. Maybe a comedy scene. Maybe a sports scene. You won't have the college lifestyle exactly but a lot of people miss out on that. I did. That's life.

Apexk9 · 2016-01-01T08:46:29+00:00

That's shits fun for a while but it gets old quick.

Once you get enough stories of the way home you don't want no more.

I've been dragged out of clubs by bouncers, almost been stabbed...etc

The answer is you don't need friends dude. The answer is you're just a pussy and cant go do something yourself your a dependent you're a parasite. Go pop a drug and just enter a club and fucken party.

You know what happens if you went to a club with some guys? You will follow them around like a puppy Dog. Pussy out in just going up to a chick grabbing her hip and sticking her ass on your dick well maybe liquid courage will help at one point but fuck dude. You're just gonna stand around awkward as fuck you dont need friends to do that.

Title	I want to make lots of friends that love going out and partying, is this realistically possible after college?
Author	Bringbackglenn
Upvotes	4
Comments	9
Date	January 1, 2016 5:49 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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