Hey askTRP, looking for some advice on current situation.

Asked this chick out at the store. We eventually went on a date, and it was honestly one of the best connections I've had. Sitting in my car outside her place afterward she was making all the moves to make out with me and wanted to stay as long as she could. However, just before she went inside for the night she dropped this, "I'm not really looking for anything. I had fun (etc..)". I flipped it and teased her that she had to be dreaming if she thought i was trying to get into a relationship with her and responded by telling her openly, "i had a great time, but if you want to see me again you're gonna have to ask me out".

We exchanged texts over the next couple of days and she called me and invited me over to make me lunch. We ended up eating, watching the start of a movie then having terrible sex - terrible because of some stupid time pressure - but once again it was her coming onto me, and deliberately inviting me into her bed.

Cue a couple of days later and she asks if she can come around for a chat. Logistics were bad (my parents visiting) so she ends up calling and saying, "what i said the other day- about not wanting anything. ... i meant it. I'm really not looking for a relationship, fuck buddies, or Anything. But I'd like to be friends with you".

Tbh i didn't handle it as well as i should have over the phone (tips?). And basically ended up shrugging it off with something stupid like "have a good life then". Maybe sounded a little bitter..

This was all before Christmas. I had her added on snapchat and kept updating my story with cool shit i was doing with mates and she was following pretty closely.. this sounds fucking dumb in hindsight but i kinda liked this chick.. we've snapchatted a little over the past 2 weeks and what not, but now what is the best way to get her back on my radar? Straight up call her? She's a pretty forward girl.

Side note: when we went on a date she had just finished up on a TV game show in which she had won ~$50k. Possibly why she wanted time alone?

Side note 2 - self analysis: i feel like i fucked up most by trying to be a gentleman to her. I already have a couple of other girls and thought this one might have been LTR material.. However by playing the "gentleman card" and being kind to her i failed to get her hooked... awalt - don't change your approach because of their perceived worth.

Final side note: part of me feels used by her. After thinking carefully about her actions and intentions I'm certain she invited me over for lunch to 'tell me' that she wasn't after anything- but decided not to go through with it either because she chickened out or was feeling horny and could get a quick lay from me.. idk- any ideas?

Long read! Thanks for making it this far.