shit test or next?

DonaldJTrump2k16 · 2016-01-08T20:40:06+00:00

Friend zoned, she is not interested in you, next.

FYI

Me: Good story! Can totally relate to the pain of an ear infection. her-name, I asked you out yesterday, are you going to be an adult and respond?

This is where you fucked up. You shouldn't have addressed the story, first. Second, you shouldn't have brought up the "I asked you out why didn't you respond", that sounds whiny and needy. It put her on defense which is an easy way to get her to raise her ASD shield. Does not come across as within a solid alpha frame at all.

Seems like you ignored her for a good amount of time, but she blatantly ignored you asking her out, which is not a good sign. I would have ignored indefinately and if she contacted you again then I would have escalated immediately.

FrameWalker · 2016-01-08T21:19:59+00:00

No response is the only move.

Me: Good story! Can totally relate to the pain of an ear infection. her-name, I asked you out yesterday, are you going to be an adult and respond? 11:35 Am

This is way too fucking needy. If she doesn't respond you don't text back and move on.

TheGillos · 2016-01-08T21:29:14+00:00

As others have said you came off butthurt and needy.

I would also add your replies were try-hard and creepy. You need to be way way WAY more relaxed, outcome independent and recognize when there is no chemistry or desire. If you asked her out and she ignored it that means SHE IS NOT INTERESTED. Don't bring it up, don't bitch and moan. Move on.

Anything else and you're just annoying her and making yourself look bad.

Benny757 · 2016-01-08T21:42:42+00:00

So you'd say yes, then go buy her dinner I suppose, as a friend?

No reply is best. Next. "...going to be an adult and respond?" Hey that is what my blue pill Mr. Nice Guy ass would have done. I went and read carefully "No More Mr. Nice Guy" (search the title with pdf following it and you can find it online) The book is great, it can help, but you need to change your tactics and mindset there. I wish you the best.

blacwidonsfw · 2016-01-09T02:54:03+00:00

Ghost like casper

bittr_n_swt · 2016-01-09T10:24:15+00:00

you were way too direct with the adult line....dude haven't you read anything on here? women aren't adults, they're children...

it's not a shit test. She's not interested full stop. Just ignore that message, delete her number and move on

You can't recover from this because attraction is non- negotiable

Title	shit test or next?
Author	guitarnc
Upvotes	7
Comments	7
Date	January 8, 2016 8:30 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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