tl;dr tips on maintaining frame and questions about affection.

after plating a few girls for a few months, I decided I was ready/wanting an LTR. The easy part was gaming her from a stranger to a plate. (texting mostly for logistics, maintaining aloofness, not always available, going cold/hot, etc.) But now that i've upgraded her to LTR, things are definitely getting harder.

Maybe some of the marriedRP guys can help. I love this girl, and she loves me. This dynamic has been established. My problem is, is that I am a very affectionate person. I like to hold hands, kiss, and cuddle often. That is a problem, I don't wanna become too beta in her eyes (read: balance of alpha and beta)

So what are things I can do to keep her on her toes and not let the attraction fade? Or make her think she can get comfortable and begin to look elsewhere?

I work full time in engineering, lift 3-4 times a week, go to night class, and play team sports on the weekends. Dread? Or just try to maintain a better balance of affection and idgaf attitude?

Input is appreciated.