Hey guys,

So basically I've been trying to get my shit together. I'm 25 next month but I've been stuck in a pretty nasty cycle. Trying to kick a alcohol and drug habit for years that has been dragging me down any time I try to improve. I think what gets me to go back into that cycle is the distraction of partying with friends. Seeing them all talk about it on group chats and snap chats I cave easily. And the thing is when I go out and party, I don't even pull that well cause I get way too drunk, hence why I'm trying to cut it out of my life. I've tried to quit many times but I'm starting to think I really need to go off the grid and work on myself. The distractions on snapchat or messenger gets me to cave and if I have no way of contacting people or seeing stories I can just focus on myself.

Has anyone done this before? I need to kick this habit of drinking and partying, it doesn't do me any good. I had a girl want to fuck me at a party last weekend but I was too fucked up missed my opportunity and she babnged some other dude instead. So I'm starting to think the booze doesn't help me pull at all and need to find other ways to pull and meet women.

I yhink I go back to it every time cause it's the easiest way to meet people but I'm realizing the cons are outweighing the pros every time. How do I use this time effectively? I really enjoy going out and being social but the alcohol nd drugs really don't help me become a better man.