Going on a trip. Invited a girl I'm interested in.

jonastty · 2016-02-06T03:28:40+00:00

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fatgymrat · 2016-02-06T03:35:20+00:00

dont do it, especially if you havent fucked her.

best case scenario: you end up having sex with her on the trip. great.

worst case scenario: she tells you on the trip that shes been fucking someone else. youve paid for her to be there, you aint getting any, youll feel like a chump and youre stuck with her for the duration of the trip.

the above scenario happened to me just before swallowing the red pill, even though i had slept with her before and during the trip. never again.

abcd_z · 2016-02-06T04:18:00+00:00

There are plenty of things that could cause a woman to see you as a provider, AKA beta male. However, three of them come to mind here.

1: Living together, even temporarily.
2: Paying for things for her.
3: NOT FUCKING HER.

And hey, you want to do all three at the same time.

This can't end well.

Also, if you've already been on three dates and haven't slept with her, you need to move on and find somebody else who will put out within a reasonable time frame. As the great PUAs of the past have said, "Go Fuck Ten Other Women!"

Title	Going on a trip. Invited a girl I'm interested in.
Author	jonastty
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	February 6, 2016 2:42 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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