Girl texts on day of date to say that she is ill

abdada · 2016-03-01T16:11:31+00:00

"get better" and soft next. Don't initiate anymore. If she re-initiates (she won't), just go from there.

Archwinger · 2016-03-01T16:36:29+00:00

Soft next. If a girl is actually into you and cancels for legitimate reasons, then when she cancels, she'll propose an alternate date/time. If she's really and truly busy as hell, maybe she'll do that in the near future, but probably not. If she just cancelled without proposing an alternate, assume she's not interested and move on. Maybe while you go out and fuck other women and continue your life, she follows up with you in the future. Maybe not. But don't reach out to her.

If she does contact you, focus solely on logistics, not conversation and validation. Set up a meeting. Don't just chit chat with her and be her buddy.

If it's been maybe 3 weeks and you haven't heard anything from her, it can't hurt to fish for a fuck if you have a little spare time between other girls. Go ahead and send her one text. If she responds, same rules as above. Focus on the meeting. If she doesn't respond, delete her number and don't contact her again.

disposable_me_0001 · 2016-03-01T16:27:51+00:00

You were the backup. She found something better to do in the nick of time. Next.

yGTWgtNrco · 2016-03-01T18:48:42+00:00

"Get well soon" and go to the next girl in the queue.

[deleted] · 2016-03-01T16:46:16+00:00

She wouldn't do that to brad pitt, and she didnt try to reschedule the date. Next

RedAsBlood · 2016-03-04T01:52:18+00:00

She found a better option. Its just a nice way of rejecting you.

Work on your game.

Title	Girl texts on day of date to say that she is ill
Author	basicelectronic
Upvotes	8
Comments	9
Date	March 1, 2016 4:10 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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