I've been having a problem for a few years, I can't get my dick hard on the first night with any girl. I try not to think about it, relax and stuff but i still can't get it hard... I know it's not a physical problem because the second or third time (if there is one) usually goes well. Because of this I dont even try to approach girls, I know I wont be able to do anything if I can manage to get her in my bed. I didn't have this problem a few years ago, it started when I couldn't get hard after getting drunk, the girl started making fun of me, we tried again a few times without being drunk, same thing happened. I still fuck girls but never the first night...