Real talk. No BS.

In the modern day and age, it seems like being white aggravates the incel condition. I feel like the fact that I was born white is one of the major reasons that I'm suffering romantically.

A lot of people deny this, but it seems like the vast majority of white girls prefer black guys these days. It may be anecdotal but I see more black guys in relationships with white girls than I do white guys. I think it's because the larger features + darker skin are higher indicators of testosterone which triggers attraction in women. Competing with them as an average white dude just feels like I'm destined for failure. Is there any way to get past this immediate threshold?