I'm not here to say people should or shouldn't do what they want, however I keep finding that for some reason there is this huge push from many women online and that I personally know to essentially forcibly ingrain it into everybody's head that not only are they allowed to have sex with any number of random strangers, no matter how reckless and hedonistic it is, but they take it to the point where you HAVE to accept them as equals and even in some cases superior to other women who chose not to sleep around.

Casual sex is by definition dehumanizing and distilling another human being down to their sexual organs and using your body and theirs as fuel for instant gratification pleasure. It releases dopamine the same way drug usage does as well as oxytocin which I won't get into but both can easily be argued to mess your perceptions of things up. It also has a large number of consequences, more severe and plentiful for women in fact than for men, that range from loss of reputation, STDs, sexual violation, physical abuse from somebody who could very well be crazy, pregnancy, mental/emotional trauma, loss of self esteem, a loss of value for sex, relationships, and people (just like porn does) and the fact that: It's exactly the same thing as doing drugs except it involves sticking a dick inside of you from a guy who most of the time not only doesn't respect you but most likely is having a power trip about "fucking a slut" if the guys at my college were any indication with their weekly "I came on that slut's face dude".

There are also tons of studies proving that women that sleep around have an exponentially higher chance of mental disorder, infidelity, stds obviously, impulsive risk taking behavior, need for validation, or quiet frankly think of sex as meaningless, etc..etc...

I'm the last person on the planet to bring up anecdotes as well but quiet frankly I dated a girl that fucked 20+ dudes and I gave her a chance. Guess what? She fit every stereotype imaginable from being suicidal, to ransacking her house and self mutilating every time I'd catch her lying, which frankly was pretty much every time she opened her mouth, lied about cheating on 5 previous boyfriends, lied about having been tested for stds and never having unprotected sex (turns out she had unprotected sex with three guys at once, how nice) and countless other things.

How exactly is any of this supposed to be respected or make her equal to another person? People's value is determined by their actions. You're not supposed to judge people on their skin color or their gender but you are in fact supposed to, and unless you're not apart of the human species since this is how we actually have survived until this day and age, automatically judge people for their actions. Past behavior is largely indicative of future behavior since personality is defined as a pattern of actions and traits and has been proven to be set in stone by the time you're in 1st grade. And frankly "i sucked 20 dicks and let chadbro cum on my face" isn't a "mistake". A mistake is forgetting to buy milk at the grocery store, not willingly intoxicating yourself and sleeping with someone. And frankly for any other situation, going home with a complete stranger to do something that's just "meaningless and fun" like playing chess, but with all the added consequences of sex would label somebody as mentally damaged. However for some reason being horny justifies all behavior.

To me this entire "don't shame me" culture is based around the entitled generation we live in where everybody takes everything personally and would rather live in society who's boundaries were shaped specifically for them and in fact dynamic based off the mistakes they made to never have to admit fault or inadequacy. Except for rape, because rapists should be put down of course since somehow that's worse than genocide to feminists when that very same week they got raped they slept with a complete stranger.

And just to clarify I am talking about uncommitted casual sex where the other person's purpose to you is to get you off. And no I don't believe men should have casual sex either, regardless of double standard or not it's hypocritical and falls into a lot of the same issues.

TL;DR: If you're hedonistic and don't respect yourself or other people and use yourself and others like a drug why should I respect you or not associate your value with your actions?