LTR & BJs

xdesol8x · 2016-03-29T02:30:03+00:00

My last LTR back before I swallowed the pill used to say things like "I hate giving head" and "it makes me feel cheap".

Eventually once I wised up I hit her with "it's completely ok that you don't like sucking my dick, that's entirely your choice, but I'm not going the rest of my life without getting head"

She got pissy as all hell, I held frame and she was sucking away within a few weeks. Was quite surprised when I dropped her a few weeks later.

JimFury · 2016-03-29T03:25:31+00:00

Blowjobs are a requirement for my LTR's. If they won't do blowjobs thats an instant demote or hard next.

Sepean · 2016-03-29T06:43:56+00:00

Bro. Why the fuck are you not even considering the obvious problem here?

The problem is you. You're too low value for her. Too little alpha, too weak frame.

You can next her, sure. And the same thing will happen with the next girl.

Either you didn't have game to begin with, or you lose it once you get close to a girl. Figure this shit out. Read the sidebar, improve. If you're serious about wanting to be in an LTR, then slash r slash marriedredpill has some relevant reading on their sidebar.

But no mistake. You're the problem here.

abdada · 2016-03-28T23:56:39+00:00

I wouldn't dump her instantly, but I'd start focusing on finding some plates and occupying yourself at bettering your life so your next LTR won't ever say that to you.

SpinPlates · 2016-03-29T05:11:40+00:00

I wouldn't be outright mean to her face but facts are facts bitch, you're an evolutionary anomaly and are not to be fucked with.

Start phasing her out, but be nice.

returnofthemackX · 2016-03-29T06:07:11+00:00

She should WANT to suck your dick. She needs to WANT to please you. This girl does not care about pleasing you, find out why.

TWYW · 2016-03-29T08:23:33+00:00

She's not attracted. And/or she really hates it for some reason.

Either way, dread a bit and if it doesn't work, dump her. You're not having your needs met.

RedApathy · 2016-03-29T00:51:23+00:00

Dig deeper. Find out why she doesn't like it. Is it because you have a smelly jungle crotch? The taste? Gag reflex?

If you have a good relationship as you say, there should be no problem finding a solution to something you both should be enjoying.

stickfiguresk · 2016-03-29T02:47:53+00:00

She's bluffing. Call the bluff with dread.

inquisitiveguy1990 · 2016-03-29T07:31:22+00:00

just dump her. i was in this situation before and a girl that doesnt like giving head may start giving head, but its not gonna be great "smiling while looking you in the eyes" head. and thats what u want

PantsonFire1234 · 2016-03-29T09:25:20+00:00

No idea man, my last "girlfriend" loved to suck my dick. Then again she was a huge slut and my size is gods gift.

bsutansalt · 2016-03-29T19:53:08+00:00

Short version: If she's not willing to put in the work to make that relationship a success, then it's time to start looking for women who are a better match.

Longer version: This is a red flag/early indication her attraction to you is waning. It's also a mix of shit test and a lack of frame control on your part.

Tread carefully. At this point you don't reward her with attention and validation for doing what is the equivalent to a dog peeing on your rug. Good sex and sexual compaitibility is a must for a relationship to be healthy and successful.

SoRedSuchAlpha · 2016-03-31T00:32:20+00:00

Rpvp,

How happy were you with your sex life with her up til now?

aesopamnesiac · 2016-03-29T05:53:19+00:00

You could just consider the fact that you actually love this person and she's worth more than the physical sensation of a mouth on your penis.

xorchids · 2016-03-29T03:03:12+00:00

Sucking dick is disgusting. So is eating pussy. Makes me gag just thinking about it.

Title	LTR & BJs
Author	rpvp
Upvotes	14
Comments	33
Date	March 28, 2016 11:55 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/4ccwp3/ltr_bjs/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/ltr-bjs.162628 https://theredarchive.com/post/162628

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