I have my life in order. I've worked hard over the years to get into a position where I'm "King of my own world".

  • I hit the gym 3-4 times a week and get a lot of comments about my abs and butt from girls I've dated. I also get told I'm "handsome" and good looking a lot.

  • I have become an accountant, working my way from nothing and using several jobs as stepping stones to get to where I am. I'm still underpaid as an accountant, but once I get to around Aug/Sept this year I'll take the next step and get a £35k+ salary.

  • I bought a 2 bedroom city centre apartment with a sweet balcony. I rented a room out for the last 7 years and saved all the spare cash I could. I am now mortgage free.

  • See above, I'm very financially secure. I have 5 holidays booked this year. I have several different groups of sociable friends, so I'm never stuck to find someone to do something with.

  • I have lots of hobbies that I'm content with doing on my own. I play guitar and ukulele. I read a lot. I'm happy video gaming (I know this gets a lot of stick, but it really helps me to unwind, so I don't care).

Personally, I'm in a great place, but I would like some women in my life. My problem is, it seems like 80-90% of girls nowadays are either overweight, unintelligent, crazy, or a combination of all three! For me, that isn't attractive. I know people will say sex is sex, but I just have no interest in wasting time with sub-par women.

This creates a problem that I need help with. When I do actually meet a girl that I like, it makes any rejection that little bit harder because I don't know how long it will be before I meet someone I like again. This isn't oneitis or putting women on a pedestal, this is just how I feel about the majority of women and a lack of attraction for them. How can I get over this?