I met my LTR in high school, we lost our virginities to each other and have been together ever since (I'm 20 now, in college). She is what many would consider a redpill woman, a natural caretaker who wants to be a stay at home mom, etc. I would consider our SMVs to be roughly equal, however based on her general behavior and endless comfort tests she definitely considers my SMV to be higher and wants to do everything she can to keep me committed. Basically, I have more power in the relationship due to dread, and having an aggressive winner's mentality even before I discovered TRP.

I could definitely see myself spending the rest of my life with this girl, our relationship is great even if it can be boring sometimes (we're both introverts). We typically have sex whenever I want, but I honestly am somewhat bored of her after fucking her all this time.

Before we met in high school I didn't have much trouble with girls, and I still get IOIs from girls semi-regularly, although most people I hang around know I'm in a committed relationship and respect that boundary. I'm white, 6'1 168 lbs and in the best shape of my life due to lifting and playing basketball (still want to gain ~5 pounds). I like to think that I have very good social skills WHEN I overcome my built in social anxiety, which I have been doing more and more lately as I gain confidence.

Obviously I could just break up with her and spin plates, but I honestly can't see a girl living up to her in terms of LTR potential. I often wish that I would have met her when I was 28, because she is not great for me in this stage of my life. I should be hanging with my bros and building social capital while I spin plates and have fun. The best solution is for her to agree to let me fuck other girls with the condition that she is still my No. 1 and that I am committed to her long term. It is exactly what I want, and I think it would preserve our relationship in the long run. I definitely wouldn't want to marry this girl with any reservations. Simply put, I need to be able to experience other women physically before I settle down.

If you made it this far, thanks for reading. Has anyone been in a similar situation, and what are some strategies to ensure that she would agree to being my No. 1 out of several? By the way, she would be free to get with other guys. I would not impose a double standard on her, especially because I know that she finds sleeping around distasteful, and knows that a high N count can jeopardize future long term relationships.