A married Filipina coworker 28F who was brought to Europe by her now husband since 5 years (she works abroad in another country for the same company) developed feelings for me after she visited me 30M (single) in my office for 2 weeks for a work trip.

She seems very naive, she has been emotionally cheating on him with me for a few weeks now. She said she is unhappy in her marriage, says that her husband doesn't understand her etc but feels like she can't leave him due to everything he did for her.

I was willing to go through with her cheating until I realised how fucked up the consequences of cheating are and that I wouldn't be able to bear the consequences, keep in mind we work together, just in different countries. I got cold feet now about the whole thing.

I essentially told her to piss off, but let's say what if she eventually divorces her husband. Considering the below pros and cons. (and without me telling I would get with her before she is divorced so she knows I'm not a safety net). Should I give this woman a chance?

Pros:
-She's very hot, my perfect type
-Surely I can think of something...

Cons/(potential) red flags
-She might cheat on me too eventually

-She is expensive for the following reasons: she has poor financials and her love language = gifts (not really a problem if she turns out to be the love of my life)

-She has family she cares about that's still in the Philippines and told her husband that she wants to bring them over to Europe so that will probably become my problem too if I get with her

-I have a feeling her plan is to use me as a safety net because she wants to end her current marriage and wants to ensure I take care of her once she is divorced

-Her hobbies don't align with mine, she likes plane traveling, I hate planes meaning I would have to change a lot for her, it's possible but who knows...

What are your thoughts?