Every time you see and/or interact with a man, look for something good about him.

SoftHarem · 2013-08-09T23:32:12+00:00

I think this is a good point of view to have about people in general. However, I have seen too many girls go out with a man who treats them poorly and yet stick to them because they can't seem to see the (really) bad qualities or want to look at the bright side of their relationships. Look at people in a positive light, but also keep your sense of self respect and don't go out with a guy who is not looking to be in a serious relationship with you or treats you poorly. If he wants casual fun, and you want something serious, don't try delude yourself because you fear being alone, just move on. I am new to the RP stuff and I never went online to date, so maybe things are different in the internet dating world.

LifterofThings · 2013-08-10T15:05:54+00:00

This (and so many other things) come down to "the golden rule", which a staggering number of women seem to ignore completely.

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

You want him to appreciate the best in you in spite of your few extra pounds or whatever, but you won't even give him the time of day if he falls an inch short of your height "requirement". Ugh.

empyblessing · 2013-08-10T23:54:52+00:00

I like this advice for women looking for a partner. Take your list of attributes you want him to have and pick the three most important ones and look for those.

sugarcrush · 2013-08-10T02:35:44+00:00

The OP's statement should be amended to "IF YOU'RE AVAILABLE, every time...blah blah blah". Private man's intent of the article was geared towards women who are in the market for a man and who should be woman-ing up and not towards women who should not be making themselves sexually available towards men who aren't their husband/boyfriend.

Title	Every time you see and/or interact with a man, look for something good about him.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	13
Comments	14
Date	August 9, 2013 8:40 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/1k1s8e/every_time_you_see_andor_interact_with_a_man_look/
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