Inheriting a butt load of money and have been told to keep it separate.

TempestTcup · 2014-10-13T16:16:59+00:00

You are already using this money as a weapon and you are badmouthing your husband. You will be divorced in less than a year, so I guess I'd hang onto the money since you are willing to let it rip your relationship apart.

TheTerrorSquad · 2014-10-13T19:56:52+00:00

I cant imagine coming in to over 2 million and before I even tell my husband I ask an online forum for advice. Shits telling.

[deleted] · 2014-10-13T05:48:45+00:00

"he's got funny ideas how to handle money"

whether he is bad at handling money or you are untrusting of his leadership, you have quite a large issue here before you even decide what to do with the money

ALadyLikeMe · 2014-10-13T05:51:47+00:00

Wow sorry about your loss but congratulations about your inheritance. The thing is, this is a big deal and both of you need to be ready for the internal mental change that needs to come with such a sudden increase in assets. Most people who win the lottery go right back to their original comfort zone because they just didn't know any other way.

You now have enough money to afford a really good financial advisor (and it will be worth paying for a good one). If you and your husband can get on the same page, meaning that neither of you really know how to handle this much money, then you can agree to both out your trust into a third party expert. This person is better equipped to tactfully tell your husband that $2.5 mil cannot simply sit in a savings account, and will give much better advice for how to invest it than you personally could either. And they will know how to honor a pre-nup without making it a trust issue.

You are a team, so don't let money get in between you, and remember that you need to trust your husband to be the captain and to handle big decisions with the finances. This being said, you can make it your mission to help you both get educated about wise ways to invest.

Edit: Also, I highly recommend you both read the book Secrets of the Millionaire Mind and even attend the free Millionaire Mind Intensive seminar. Best thing my SO and I have ever done for our financial success and really helps couples get on the same page. Wish they taught us this stuff (and TRP!) in school instead of all the other BS.

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[deleted] · 2014-10-13T13:04:57+00:00

I pulled this because its not particularly an RPW subject and the amount of AWALT, non RP tit for tat advice thats going to pile up doesnt help anyone.

If you keep it separate and deal with it in ways he ideologically opposes then you are basically a traitor to him, like i'm sure he already figured all women were when he asked for a prenup.

Basically, you have shown that this money is going to tear your marriage apart. You dont respect his ideas, and now those ideas are going to run so counter to what you want to do with YOUR money that you will start opening your mouth to him disrespectfully, you will see him in a new light, you wont need him, youll want him to dance to your tune. Resentment over the prenup will come out. If you keep this money separate you might as well file for divorce now

Title	Inheriting a butt load of money and have been told to keep it separate.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	9
Comments	33
Date	October 13, 2014 4:46 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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