Just broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years. Feeling lost and scared. (short rant)

StingrayVC · 2014-11-19T12:41:52+00:00

You're 20 and with what you wrote here, I'm not terrible surprised you feel asexual, especially since this is so recent. Feeling asexual after this break up and being asexual are not necessarily the same.

but what do I do in the meantime?

You live your life. It might sound difficult now, but the more you live it, the easier all of this will get for you. Try not to live it like the girl who just broke up with a guy, but live it like it's your life. Go to work, care for those babies, do the other things you love to do and do it while dressing the part and with a smile on your face, even when you don't feel like it. It will slowly make you feel like yourself again. The carousel is not real life, even though a lot of people will tell you it is. Find your thing, and do it.

You're 20 and if you are happy, smiling, sweet, hold a feminine demeanor not only will these things likely make you more happy, men will notice you. Do not wallow. This is what will give men the impression that you are "not interested in men". Don't be standoffish. You can do this even though you're not interested in dating right now.

frozen_strawberry · 2014-11-19T12:03:19+00:00

What's a T-Girl? (other than that i'm assuming he cheated on you?)

I'm not sure if 1.5 years of being single counts as a long time but let's just assume it does. I think it's important that you see this as a time to grow. and a time to learn to be happy with just yourself. you're 20 so you have plenty of time to find a great guy. make sure to take care of yourself, eat healthy, work out, try to improve your personality (basically all the reasons we're here) and just be content with what you have. and when you're ready you can start dating again. healing takes time, and that's ok. especially at 20.

[deleted] · 2014-11-19T12:43:02+00:00

you're 20 and you have your whole life in front of you. Take some time to get over your hurt feelings so you aren't bringing baggage into a new relationship. You'll be fine, stick to your guns and keep moving.

[deleted] · 2014-11-19T13:39:49+00:00

They say time is a great healer. The good news is that you are 20 and you have quite a chunk of it. Focus on your self improvement and dedicate yourself to the things that mean most to you in life. Surround yourself with people who love you. Even in the low moments, pick yourself up. You have so much to live for. When I was 19 I broke up with my 1st boyfriend and was single for 3 yrs before I met my current SO. It seems like a long time but I'm glad I took that time. I was able to put space and time between my ex and I. And I can safely say I'm very happy. You'll be ok.

Title	Just broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years. Feeling lost and scared. (short rant)
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Date	November 19, 2014 9:41 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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