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[–]TheTerrorSquadEndorsed Contributor4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I need to grab your shoulders and shake you. If you were guy I'd say you're thinking with your dick!
It's not hard for a man to father a child and your logic that just because he has might make him a good candidate for you is madness and I think deep down you know this, otherwise you wouldn't be here.
Without sounding like a broken record, this is why this sub recommends getting commitment first. Now you've played your best cards and you still want to win this game. I don't know if you can but if you still want to try you need to stop with the crazy talk of baby mommas and stop letting tingles making terrible mistakes
Do not get pregnant with this man in your current situation it would be literally the most stupid and selfish thing you could do right now and you're in danger of walking into crazy bitch territory. Part if me thinks you're a troll on account of how crazy you sound but anyhoo you need a wake up call and hopefully you might hear some sense on this sub
Tldr. Check yo head!
Edit to point out to you that this guy is playing you. His "excuse " for dropping you at the last minute of "I need to see my kids" is perfect.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Take your right hand and slap yourself. You're a plate, nothing more.
Did you even look Where you were posting this?
[–]frozen_strawberryEndorsed Woman1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
why would you waste your time with him? why would you think you're not going to be single mom #3 when he's done with you? you're a plate. get the hell out of that and find someone who will commit to you to have a family with.
[–]BronzeRat1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Assuming you're not a troll, are you sure you're on the right sub? You don't seem to have even attempted to understand even the most basic parts of the red pill. I know there's a lot of theory and info and it takes a long time to really internalise and implement everything but here are a few very easy to grasp basics that you need for your situation:
Do not have sex without commitment, by which I mean monogamy and a man who isn't afraid to call you his girlfriend or similar in public. I don't say this to be old fashioned and quaint, I've made mistakes here in the past and I guarantee it will end in tears, you will get hurt repeatedly. A history of casual sex will be an issue when you want to settle down.
A baby is 1000000 levels up from sex. You should obviously have an idea where you want your life to go but don't think about actually having kids until you're married or in a very secure, happy, cohabiting LTR. Seriously, this guy is clearly not a good father or he wouldn't have kids all over the place. Having a baby will not make him commit to you and it certainly won't make him love you.
You can see he's a deadbeat so why involve yourself? Drop him now (not next week, today). Spend some time alone, without any casual sex or dating, to work on yourself. Lurk on this sub and read the side bar, you'll learn how to improve your SMV and have a happy relationship. Just about everything you talk about in your post is the wrong thing to do and you risk being miserable and alone (and dragging future children down with you). You can control your life and change things for the better!
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