What are the effects of child molestation and actual rape on that of a woman in the instance of a LTR?

TheRedStoic · 2016-09-10T19:58:28+00:00

Avoid her.

She's in a horrible, brutal circumstance, one that should never have happened and isn't her fault.

But you're not responsible for picking up the pieces.

It's an awful unpopular thing to say, but I believe (from experience and more importantly study, cert and practice) it to be true. Same way I believe a woman should walk away from men suffering severe PTSD. Or anyone bipolar (yes, men can be bipolar too). It's a bag of troubles that you're either in for the pound, or deluded for the penny.

Life happens to people. And it's not your responsibility to compromise yourself in a situation unless that's precisely what brings you satisfaction. Or it's of your own making.

You'll know if it is. It's probably not since you're asking. And she deserves someone who is. Just as you deserve your own best chance at happiness.

electrokiwi · 2016-09-10T20:03:02+00:00

This depends on how she handles it. People who have been raped or molested are not necessarily broken by it, but can be and can carry serious emotional or psychological scarring. If she is working to be the best version of her despite past trauma, I'd say give her a chance. Get to know how much her past will play into the relationship before assuming she is a lost cause. If you're not up for committing yourself to someone with some baggage (which most people have to varying degrees) then don't form a relationship there.

[deleted] · 2016-09-10T20:08:34+00:00

Impossible to say. You could date a woman who was raped who will never mention it and has no lingering repercussions from it. Some will be basket cases.

If you care that much, ask every woman you might want to LTR if she's ever been raped so you can dump her.

LuckyLittleStar · 2016-09-10T21:19:05+00:00

Removed for being off-topic.

Title	What are the effects of child molestation and actual rape on that of a woman in the instance of a LTR?
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Date	September 10, 2016 7:54 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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