I'm Indian and I live in a metropolitan city so it's not like premarital sex is impossible or unheard of. I've seriously dated 2 men so far and none of them pressurized me into doing anything. I've been on multiple dates, never used any dating app.

I have no physical issues, or religious restrictions I just don't find it to be a big deal and it's honestly F-ing powerful in a way because when I see desperate ass men hitting on anything remotely resembling a female I just feel sorry for their lack of self control. I've saved myself so much pain,trust issues and regret and never have to worry about being 'used for my body'.

Men take it as a challenge thinking that they'll change my mind and will go far as to claim 'sex isn't everything' blah blah but it's so enlightening to see them fail and it's made me realize that men will literally insert their penis into anything and will say anything to accomplish that including lying straight to your face, so it's not a compliment if they want to do it to me. Sex with a man is nothing special and men are nothing special.